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so my BD. asked me if it was okay for him to take my daughter 200 miles away from me for a week on the 30th of this…

so my BD. asked me if it was okay for him to take my daughter 200 miles away from me for a week on the 30th of this month for a wedding cuz he wants his family to meet her I understand that but I told him no didn't even think about it I just said no and here's my reason 1.he isn't around her 24/7 2.she doesn't really do well with a lot of people crowding her 3.he wouldn't know how to handle her when she just won't calm down 4.he doesn't know how to give her her meds (if needed for allergies) 5.she's been around me since she was born 6.she will be in a unfamiliar place he told me that it would do me some good to have a break from her for a little and do things I want to do but honestly I'd rather spend my time with her as much as possible. she's growing fast and I don't want to miss a beat u know and I'm not like I need a break cuz I don't she is my life and I wouldn't have it any other way but he acted like a child cuz I said no he said "am I ever going to get to go on trips with her just me and her "and I told him honestly I don't know am I wrong would u ladies be okay with this

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brudd330

brittanyМама дочки-младенца

no I don't have full custody of her but she's with me all the time he never comes and sees her the only time he sees her is if she has a doctor's appointment. and that's only for a hour and that's it he chooses to go drinking with his friends or hang out with them over seeing her like today if u look back at my other post he made a excuse as to why he couldn't see her now surprisingly he did let me know when he got home but that doesn't change the other fact that he has done that in the past and he's not on the birth certificate @sktraum

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sktraum

StephМногодетная мама (5 детей)

Do u have legal full custody? I'm asking cuz I was thinking of filing for full custody so my ex can't just take our son wherever he wants to. If u don't have legal custody papers he can take her if he wants. Just sayin. Ur a good mommy for thinking of ur baby first. He obviously isn't.

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showersoverflowers

C.Мама двоих (младенец)

She's a baby! that would be so stressful on her. I understand him wanting to introduce her but that is very young to be away from mom for more than a day. Maybe in a year or two, you'll be more comfortable with him doing that sort of thing but you never know. My ex is a terrible person (I hate saying that!!!) and it terrifies me every single time I have to let my sweetie go to him. I worry about everything the entire time but I know I have to help nurture the relationship or keeping them separate will backfire one day...

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ainsleighsmumma

Ashlynn SloanВ ожидании первенца

I would never let anyone take my child that far away from me for any length of time, not even my husband.

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