so my BD. asked me if it was okay for him to take my daughter 200 miles away from me for a week on the 30th of this month for a wedding cuz he wants his family to meet her I understand that but I told him no didn't even think about it I just said no and here's my reason 1.he isn't around her 24/7 2.she doesn't really do well with a lot of people crowding her 3.he wouldn't know how to handle her when she just won't calm down 4.he doesn't know how to give her her meds (if needed for allergies) 5.she's been around me since she was born 6.she will be in a unfamiliar place he told me that it would do me some good to have a break from her for a little and do things I want to do but honestly I'd rather spend my time with her as much as possible. she's growing fast and I don't want to miss a beat u know and I'm not like I need a break cuz I don't she is my life and I wouldn't have it any other way but he acted like a child cuz I said no he said "am I ever going to get to go on trips with her just me and her "and I told him honestly I don't know am I wrong would u ladies be okay with this
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Do u have legal full custody? I'm asking cuz I was thinking of filing for full custody so my ex can't just take our son wherever he wants to. If u don't have legal custody papers he can take her if he wants. Just sayin. Ur a good mommy for thinking of ur baby first. He obviously isn't.
She's a baby! that would be so stressful on her. I understand him wanting to introduce her but that is very young to be away from mom for more than a day. Maybe in a year or two, you'll be more comfortable with him doing that sort of thing but you never know. My ex is a terrible person (I hate saying that!!!) and it terrifies me every single time I have to let my sweetie go to him. I worry about everything the entire time but I know I have to help nurture the relationship or keeping them separate will backfire one day...
I would never let anyone take my child that far away from me for any length of time, not even my husband.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
Why Are Many Women Unaware of Their Own Anatomy?
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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so yes ima go hard in the comments bec...
no I don't have full custody of her but she's with me all the time he never comes and sees her the only time he sees her is if she has a doctor's appointment. and that's only for a hour and that's it he chooses to go drinking with his friends or hang out with them over seeing her like today if u look back at my other post he made a excuse as to why he couldn't see her now surprisingly he did let me know when he got home but that doesn't change the other fact that he has done that in the past and he's not on the birth certificate @sktraum