I love that I have my dad and mil to fall back on if ever I REALLY need a break. But at the same time I don't think they quite understand how breastfeeding works. like I can't just send him without anything to eat, he doesn't take bottles so that's outta the question. Plus I feel like when he's fussy that's when he needs me the most and sending him away while he's not feeling well just seems trifling to me tbh.. So while I appreciate the offers I have to politely decline.