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Misti Smith
Misti Smith
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)

beyond frustrated with my doctors, the nurse, and most of all myself and my body. had my 37 week check up yesterday and…

beyond frustrated with my doctors, the nurse, and most of all myself and my body. had my 37 week check up yesterday and was still not dilated cervix is closed. today I was having contractions and lost at least part of my plug. I didn't want to go to the hospital or make a big deal if it was nothing so after 4 hours, I took a bath where instead of helping ease pain and contractions it got worse and was intense. timed my contractions and they were about 2 mins apart. so my husband and I decided to go to the hospital. the nurse was super rude and talked down to me like I was stupid. she saw on the monitor I was contracting but when she went to check my cervix it was still completely closed. nothing was changing. she gave me the option to either go home or walk for a few to see if that would help. my 18 month old was tired and throwing a fit so I said go home but the doctor would not come talk to me or see me himself and talk to me. I don't understand how I can be having the pains that I am having they be as close as they are and my body and cervix not do anything!!! she said to come back if they get worse or I have blood or fluid leakage but what is the point if they are just going to tell me my cervix won't dilate and send me home. my cervix was fine with my son

it dilated on its own and was soft. I thought the second time around my body would do what it was suppose to and the cervix would dilate on its own like it did the first time around but no nothing. I literally left the hospital in tears partly because I was upset with myself for going and thinking it was it partly mad at myself because my cervix still isn't dilating no matter the amount of pain and contractions, irritated with the rude nurse and doctor who wouldn't even see me himself. I'm just over it I want her to be healthy and I am glad for that sake that it wasn't it but I don't understand how I can be having so much pain and my cervix not change or dilate.

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mgncal89

Megan

Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (13 нед.)

That's very common. My friends is 29 weeks and having contractions but her cervix is sill closed and she's not thinning out so because of that they sent her home. If you were starting to dilate or thinning then the doc would of came to see and talk to you but since there was no problems he probably just didn't even want to bother.

little_1_on_the_way

Anastasia Jaksetic

Мама сына-младенца

@momof2teacher, don't let that get to you. You don't even need that stress. I was having contractions every 3min at 28 weeks. I was in preterm labor and I wasn't dilated. my cervix was soft. I got sent home.

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