Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Sometimes I have no patience for my dog. He's a puppy and he constantly wants me to hold him or pick him up and he constantly cries. My patience while pregnant is literally at 0 and I feel bad because he's just a baby but I can't help it his crying irritates me 😭
I need some advice my babies father gets really mad when he drinks liquor. He woke me up and started a big argument about the thermostat he completely destroyed the room and choked me this is the 2nd time he has done this. I'm going to church today and I'm not sure of what to do when he starts calling and texting to talk to me because he realized he messed up. I need some advice and solutions to help the problem.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Kimber miller·
Мама сына-младенца
@bria exactly. Haha!! Girl, if you find it, let me know!😂 I feel the same way.
bria·
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it's cuz some of these girls are buggin I'd be in fuckin jail if my man tried to play some dumb shit like I see they post about. Lol. Let me find my man this seminar ASAP!!!😂 but yea ur right he's slightly dumb but it's slightly cute 😍
Kimber miller·
Мама сына-младенца
@bria I love this app to vent but I feel like sometimes women see my husband as this absolute piece of shit. Haha, so I'm over here like...defending him because he is an amazing husband and father but also mad at him because he did something dumb. 😂😅 I wish there was a seminar or class we could send them off to one time and suddenly everything would click but I guess that wouldn't make them our husband's.
bria·
Мама дочки-младенца
I understand I'm in the same boat lol and that's funny I knew I was on to something ! Lol
Kimber miller·
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@bria It is actually scientifically proven that women need more sleep than men because our brains work harder and multitask much more than men's brains. I love my man to death and it isn't like he is abusive or treats me like shit ..it isn't one of those situations where I'm an idiot for staying with him but on the rare occasion he pulls dumb ass moves and I have to set him straight.
bria·
Мама дочки-младенца
I'm seriously convinced men have smaller brains or are missing pieces of it or something lol
Kimber miller·
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@lexilu I agree!!
lexus·
Мама дочки (3 года)
Absolutely! Ive learned that when we complain to our men they get even more useless. It's better to talk to them as if we were talking to our children sometimes 😂
Kimber miller·
Мама сына-младенца
@lexilu haha!! I do that to him and he hates it. I will try saying that. it does sound better than complaining
lexus·
Мама дочки (3 года)
Personally, i would not deal with that. Tell him to be more proactive (without sounding like your complaining)! Or for a day or say "OK" him to death. Men hate that haha
Kimber miller·
Мама сына-младенца
@pebblestone he is amazing to us but there are just some nights or moments where he does something totally unfair. I've talked to him about it before, he just doesn't always think too hard about it. I mean he is truly a great husband and an awesome dad but there are always those hard times
Amber·
Take control of your life . If someone doesn't treat you right then you need a moment to think about that (What is he worth to you) . If he's a good guy then you two need a serious talk because that's just wrong . There has to be a common ground for next time he goes out. U have to get a good system going