Today is just one of those days. My husband went out with our brother in law and got back at 2:30 in the morning. He woke both me and the baby up because he wanted to lay down with Auggy in the bed and I told him no (he rolls in his sleep and is a very heavy sleeper) so then I had to stay up with the baby until 4 a.m. because Steven woke him up...now he doesn't understand why I'm irritated with him. And to top it off..all I wanted this morning was a shower and ten minutes to myself and when I came in the room he passed the baby off to me because he was crying and had a dirty diaper..Like, dude..you couldn't have changed him for me? Now I'm feeding the baby, I'm hungry and thirsty and he just leaves the room without offering to help because he is annoyed that I'm still irritated with him..I love him so much but seriously fuck that. I'm so tired of constantly having to point out that he needs to offer to help me out.
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it's cuz some of these girls are buggin I'd be in fuckin jail if my man tried to play some dumb shit like I see they post about. Lol. Let me find my man this seminar ASAP!!!😂 but yea ur right he's slightly dumb but it's slightly cute 😍
@bria I love this app to vent but I feel like sometimes women see my husband as this absolute piece of shit. Haha, so I'm over here like...defending him because he is an amazing husband and father but also mad at him because he did something dumb. 😂😅 I wish there was a seminar or class we could send them off to one time and suddenly everything would click but I guess that wouldn't make them our husband's.
I understand I'm in the same boat lol and that's funny I knew I was on to something ! Lol
@bria It is actually scientifically proven that women need more sleep than men because our brains work harder and multitask much more than men's brains. I love my man to death and it isn't like he is abusive or treats me like shit ..it isn't one of those situations where I'm an idiot for staying with him but on the rare occasion he pulls dumb ass moves and I have to set him straight.
I'm seriously convinced men have smaller brains or are missing pieces of it or something lol
Absolutely! Ive learned that when we complain to our men they get even more useless. It's better to talk to them as if we were talking to our children sometimes 😂
@lexilu haha!! I do that to him and he hates it. I will try saying that. it does sound better than complaining
Personally, i would not deal with that. Tell him to be more proactive (without sounding like your complaining)! Or for a day or say "OK" him to death. Men hate that haha
@pebblestone he is amazing to us but there are just some nights or moments where he does something totally unfair. I've talked to him about it before, he just doesn't always think too hard about it. I mean he is truly a great husband and an awesome dad but there are always those hard times
Take control of your life . If someone doesn't treat you right then you need a moment to think about that (What is he worth to you) . If he's a good guy then you two need a serious talk because that's just wrong . There has to be a common ground for next time he goes out. U have to get a good system going
@bria exactly. Haha!! Girl, if you find it, let me know!😂 I feel the same way.