So ladies I need some advice.
I don't know how to tell my father he's having another grandson. I really want to, because I'm hoping it'll open his eyes a bit, but just a couple of weeks ago he told me I should abort the "thing" because I can't even take care of myself and it's not important. 😔 it really hurt but all I want is for him to care. What should I do?
@hollyann710, That's messed up that he said that to you my father have said some fucked up shit to me as well but the best way to deal with a "Dad" is talk to him alone an tell him "your my father an I care that your in my son's life as his grandfather because I love you but I can't make you love or care about this situation(Baby) if your "not", it's your choice but I want you in his life , I'll leave it to you to decide dad"....That's what I'll tell my dad because even tho my own dad has whipped me beat me an taught me right from wrong the hard way I still love him an thank him for raising me right with my mother i feel this way cz that's how close I am with them.....but if your dad doesn't try or change his ways like my dad did you just gotta say F#*! it an move on its your own life an your an adult now so only you know what's best within your heart I some what agree with @janhasx3 once he sees that baby he'll probably hv a change of heart......
he will come around my family was like that and lately they have warm up to the fact they expecting a grandson.
@janhasx3, he was thrilled with my first son. He was the one along side my mom who took care of me during my pregnancy when his father wouldn't even bother. But he doesn't want anything to do with Ethan. Ignored my ultrasound video. Says nothing about my belly pics. Nate tells him about his baby "bruddah" and he tunes him out it seems. I just want him to care.
@cubanese, , Your gonna love your family no matter what and want them to be a part of the child's life . @hollyann710 In the beginning he might not be happy . He might feel like your not ready . But once he sees the baby he will be open . A child's innocent always make you fall in love 😊
I hope so. Thank you ladies 💙