Guy's are so selfish and it's even worse some of the girls answer's on here. Why would you be so desperate to have sex? When you are in pain just to keep a man happy!?

well I guess it's fine to the lad to do that bbe well it's better for him to do it in bed next to u or go and have sex with some one else so look at it this way... but he shouldn't done it when u in pain tho but may be he did really needed to empty his bulls sweetheart. at less he dont cheat. I let my husband to do that when am not on the mood but he can't get off me since I got pregnant lol so I have to go with it every day but sometimes I tell him off and let him watch what ever he wants and deal with it him self at less his always at home with me xxx

its not the fact he watches porn, its upsetting that he would even dream of doing it next to me in bed! he always denies ot when i hint to him about him watching it. & they wont keep me in until im dilating, they say that its safe for me to go home because my waters havent broke either. i do have to go for daily checks though xxx

@karenb1601, yeah it's your own choice.. I didn't mean they will force you to leave, my labour was like a week long and they gave me the option to stay on a communal ward or go home and wait it out. My point was that they wouldn't demand to keep you in unless you are in established labour xx

@kmcf2302, they sent me home when i was in slow labour until i refused to leave as i wanted pain relief so i could rest and that was only 24hrs in x

I'm quite the opposite on this subject, I have no issue with my hubby watching porn or playing with himself! but I agree with @tg123456789 let him sex you if you genuinely think your having contractions. no harm in it at all. xx

but in that much pain and constant going back every day they wouldnt let you home. they would advise to stay in and monitor every 44 hours with over night stay. they do it with ne but i refuse to stay in as no childcare at home x

Ooft. @tg123456789 @karenb1601 @lottiekingstone It's one thing being ok with your other half watching porn and wanking... It's another thing to do it when you're contracting/in pain :/ and also - @tg123456789 one of my best friends was in slow labour for the best part of a week so it's not impossible. I was in slow labour for 2 days and they let me go home, the hospital will let you home untill you are in established labour :/ xx

@lottiekingstone, im sorry but i have to agree with @tg123456789 id much rather my hubby was having a wank to porn than out getting it elsewhere. and if i was in yr position is have put the pain aside as best i could and jumped on him! x

honestly. if ur in that much pain and having contractions they wouldnt have let you out of hospital either day uve been in this week. and would you rather your bf be out doing the actual thing with some floosie? i know i wouldnt. id be more than happy him having wank beside me in bed, sex brings on labour if u honestly believe these contractions are not braxton hicks and are the real deal which would mean uve been in slow labour over 3 days now then you should have sex they say it brings on labour.

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That's out of order! in bed next to you is not on. OK I'm all for my OH having some fun it's not like I want to atm but it shouldn't mean he misses outside as a result bur definitely not in bed next to me.

Although the porn thing annoys me because these women do anything and guaranteed they don't look anything like the persons OH. makes you feel quite shit that they get aroused by these people and that. I don't know if my OH watches it or not, tbh I think I prefer not knowing as I don't know what he's watching or anything. have you spoken to your OH about it? and how it makes you feel? it may be worth trying then he knows how you feel and can rethink what he's doing xx