Mommies that tore when giving birth to your baby ; how long did you wait to have sex after ? & did it hurt !??? 😣 it's been 4 weeks since I had my baby & don't even feel ready yet to even try it but I'm actually scared to even try 😳what if it hurts ?? 😩 I can't live like this ! Lol does it even feel the same ? 😫
My doctor had to cut me or I would have ripped. She told me if I had sex before my 6w appointment that it would most likely open back up and I would have to have them stitch it back up. She said that she has see people not listen and it's not pretty. And I believe her. I waited 6 weeks and it hurt like 2 times then I was good to go 😜😂
with my first I tore and now with my 2ND as well. we waited the full 6 with my first. now with my second I'm a little more sore, so we will have to see.
Please wait the full 6 weeks until your doctor gives the go-ahead, they can tell you if everything is healed right down there and if your cervix has closed completely! I tored twice, two 2nd degree tears from an extremely rapid all natural birth....recovery SUCKED and we had sex again right at the 6 week mark after the check up and it did hurt at first...it is important to have lots of foreplay to help with lubrication, trust me. The pain was only there when it aimed and hit against the scar tissue, but it got better after a few weeks and started feeling normal I'd say after a few months. Now most of the time it's like it never happened, although I still prefer he doesn't put pressure on the perineum (skin between the V and A lol), as I tore there and the scar tissue there is still kinda sore sometimes.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?

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the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
My labia tore in half, so I had to be stitched up and to be honest, I didn't have sex until almost three months pp. It didn't hurt, but it was a little uncomfortable at first. Everything is going to feel different at first, because your body is still recovering. Just take it slow, don't rush. And make sure you have the okay from your doctor first.