He's 9 days old and yeah we've had a few chats about it now but it doesn't seem to sink in Xx

How old is your lo? @han3816 the first few weeks/months is very hard & puts a massive strain on the strongest relationship. Even when you have a happy content baby. I'm the first to call on dickhead partners as I've never & will never put up with certain behaviours. However have you tried talking to him about it? Men don't understand what we're going through & even now with our second child I have to remind my husband now & then how hard it is looking after a baby/small children. Occasionally I'll give him 2hrs with the children while I've gone off & he's soon realised & appreciates how hard it is. If your oh is unwilling to talk/work things out then I'd totally debate chuckin he's arse out as relationships are meant to be 2 people working together. Hope things get better for you Hun & he comes around x

He was like this before but I thought him seeing his son would make him want to help a bit more but he doesn't bother with him XX

A lot of it is because they feel left out, they don't bond like we do as they don't carry them and the baby needs its mum so they often feel like a spare part. So being blokes they get stroppy and selfish 🙄

That's aweful hun! It takes two to make a child! he has to take some responsibility too! That's unfair! But you know hun...It will get better I promise :) Do what you feel is best :) Maybe some time away will help xxx