Me and oh really aren't getting along anymore, he doesn't understand how hard it is for me especially with breastfeeding I'm up all hours with our son and he sleeps through then moans at me when I do wake him up to settle littlen. This has happened again this morning and he's just stormed out, considering packing a bag and going to my mums
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How old is your lo? @han3816 the first few weeks/months is very hard & puts a massive strain on the strongest relationship. Even when you have a happy content baby. I'm the first to call on dickhead partners as I've never & will never put up with certain behaviours. However have you tried talking to him about it? Men don't understand what we're going through & even now with our second child I have to remind my husband now & then how hard it is looking after a baby/small children. Occasionally I'll give him 2hrs with the children while I've gone off & he's soon realised & appreciates how hard it is. If your oh is unwilling to talk/work things out then I'd totally debate chuckin he's arse out as relationships are meant to be 2 people working together. Hope things get better for you Hun & he comes around x
He was like this before but I thought him seeing his son would make him want to help a bit more but he doesn't bother with him XX
A lot of it is because they feel left out, they don't bond like we do as they don't carry them and the baby needs its mum so they often feel like a spare part. So being blokes they get stroppy and selfish 🙄
That's aweful hun! It takes two to make a child! he has to take some responsibility too! That's unfair! But you know hun...It will get better I promise :) Do what you feel is best :) Maybe some time away will help xxx
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
i finally let him do it
I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that t...
He hit me because j accidentally scratch up the tv
I need some advice my babies father gets really mad when he drinks liquor. He woke me up and started a big argument about the thermostat he completely destroyed the room and choked me this is the 2nd time he has done this. I'm going to church today and I'm not sure of what to do when he starts calling and texting to talk to me because he realized he messed up. I need some advice and solutions to help the problem.
He's 9 days old and yeah we've had a few chats about it now but it doesn't seem to sink in Xx