It's seriously annoying to have a partner that tells you, "you don't work.. Or that you don't do anything" because…

well id like to work so he best not say that to me

@shann I would like to work too, but I don't have anyone to watch my son. And day care is expensive.

that's my issue err don't want him in day care but I told him I'll go to work he's worried he won't get enough sleep he works 2nd shift well we all make sacrifices of he says something about working tell him you'll get a job while he isn't working

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My bf does the same thing. I cook, clean, do all of our laundry, take care of our daughter, pick his clothes out for work , I wake up at 3am every morning to wake him up & make his lunch & his coffee. So he can relax before work. And I'm the lazy one who does nothing all day. It's so frustrating and it hurts. And our daughter is colicky so she cries non stop. He barley holds her, doesn't change her diapers. I'm doing everything with no help. I feel like I'm a single mom. @shann

@mombie2be,

i feel you girl, my husband works 12 hour days , 5 days a week. comes home and relaxes, on his day off he sleeps in and barely touches our son. tells me i do nothing because i dont work 12 hour shifts everyday. on top of it i am 8 months pregnant taking care of a toddler and no help. its frustrating and has caused lots of resentment and fights. if you ever want to vent i am here!

@chloe_faith2016, same boat. My son is teething. Wakes up screaming sometimes in his sleep. He use to have acid reflux that would keep me up all night. I feel like I'm a single mom too!!!!!

@fubbily, my husband works 12 hr days too! He does the same thing yours does! Just relaxes and hardly ever touches my son. We haven't even had sex since last month on the 30th.

I think all men are like that my husband did the same thing to me as well