Got into a huge fight with the SO Sunday. He tells me out of frustration that he doesn't care when I tell him I'm tired…

@ang20, he sounds like he's being an ass! I've never understood why people say they would take a child away from one parent just because they're not staying together. I wouldn't let him upset you he'll get over it! If anything he should be worried your going to leave him!

@mamabee, he started the fight that pushes me over the edge an than when I saw the texts tried to play it like it was all my fault.

@mamabee, telling them I said I was done an it was over like ya cause you flipped out on me an telling me being a stay at home mom an taking care of two dogs is easy.

@ang20, oh ya they have no idea how much work taking care of a newborn and the dogs is! Because they're not doing it! Lol. My fiancé says the same shit, you don't work and I just laugh. I ask him do you want to take over the three to four night feedings, lol. He's like, "no"!

@ang20, you look like a beautiful girl, don't put up with his shit! Don't let him get you down! Stand up for yourself.

what an ass

@mamabee, oh I do I went off on him about it. Cause he knows depression runs in my family an I had it before I got pregnant and than does this. When he's a heavy sleeper he doesn't even hear her cry an most nights wakes up every 2-3 hours or makes a noise an I wake up an than acts likes she's always sleeping during the day an I should nap with her when in reality I do dishes, try to relax before she cries again or try to pee in peace. While all trying to keep my mental health good. Plus my anxiety is really bad I've had about 3 panic attacks since she was born. An yet he just thinks it's a walk in the park. Like I just I wanna tell him how I truly feel but I'm so bad at doing it in person but feel bad when i donut over text

@amaresmama, yeah.. We had an other fight like this before. 2 huge fights after Aliegha was Born cause he thinks being a stay at home mom is so easy an that I should do more. That I need to clean an cook an do laundry for being a ftm every noise she makes still makes me wake up or run to see if she's ok. I'm still trying to get use to having two cook, clean, take care of a crying baby an 2 dogs. I barely eat cause once I get food she's awake an crying.

how old is your SO?

let him stay at home with the baby and the dogs for 8 hours... no seriously do it...and see what he says when you get back!

@amaresmama, he's 21, I've let him go out when he wants to, leaving me at home. Let him do what he wants while I watch our daughter. When I was like37-38 weeks pregnant he went out for his cousins 21st bday while I sat at home.once he even went out after I got back an was in so much pain yet I had to tough it up to be super mom.

@ang20, on some days I wish I was working. I quite my job at 7 mos pregnant so I could stay home at least for a year. It's so much work being home and we are completely not appreciated for it! It's bs! I've had issues with depression in the past and if you get through the first six months your doing great. It takes a strong women not to be depressed staying at home, tired all the time.

No real man would ever think being a stay at home mom is easy. You should tAke a while day or night for yourself to do something you enjoy and let him be responsible for the daily duties....you know since he is so perfect:)

@mamabee, yes an I told him before me getting a job would be like paying for daycare not a lot of jobs that are paying a lot around me. An I don't yell at him for going out or wanting to play his game while I take care of her but yet I don't do anything an it's not a real job

@bradleys, no kidding!! Like the first two weeks he had off he was great than he went to work an was "too tired" to help yet he usually doesn't do a lot at work. Like it's not my fault you go to bed at 12pm an wake up at 6:45am. Like try to not being able to sleep or getting 3 hours of sleep a night. It's just complete BS

u guys are still very young. you need to go get your nails done, get a massage, leave him at home to take care of everything and I promise you he will give you way more credit than he does. he should already give you credit now but he might be a little young to understand a woman's job being a sahm is fucking hard! and also he might have this perception that women are supposed to cook clean and blah blah raise the kids. right now all that can wait cause you have to focus on your baby and your sanity and health too

@amaresmama, it makes me mad like I read his texts yes I probably shouldn't have but when he tells 2 people what happened than his step mom tells him to call a lawyer about getting custody

that is crazy.

I hope everything works out for you two. I check my man's phone too lol that's my right

@amaresmama, yeah like idk if I should confront him about or just let it be... 😕😕

hmm I'd just ask him if he had something he wanted to tell you

@amaresmama, he'd be like no why.

@ang20, some men are so stupid ....i have to go back to work soon which im dreading but i feel like thats going to be a vacation compared to my current day to day life

@amaresmama, so true:)

@bradleys, I've been struggling an been feeling alone most times cause when he comes home he's tired but I could be dead tired an still do stuff I've had so many 3 hours of sleep nights, and I still stay awake all day feeding her changing her playing with her, an than he comes home an acts like I do nothing an can sleep when she does. He's so oblivious to what happens when he's not around

@ang20, thats his immaturity

@bradleys, @amaresmama he acts like he was only gunna try to get as much custody as possible yet I saw the texts sayin he's going o get custody of her as in full so basically saying he'd take her away from me when I've told him before we break up I would never keep her from him, an he could see her anytime yet if we do break up he's gunna take her from me