Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Advice? I'm not really sure what to say and I'm trying not to be irritated. But I'm not sure how someone doesn't grasp that having a baby changes things and they require a lot of attention. I'm alone with her 95% of the time so when he is here for 2 days, i NEED to clean, do bills, get groceries, try to sleep so I stop hearing voices, etc. But he's a lot more emotional of a person than I am so I also get that he needs the touchiness
Vent: why doesn't my husband give me gifts or bring me treats? I see all these other ladies getting things like that and he doesn't do that for me! I'm kinda jealous!
I'm not going to do child support because he doesn't need to be around my kids unless he gets his life together and I doubt he will do that so I think it's just going to be me and my girls I just see the need to stay strong.
Jackie·
Мама дочки-младенца
Lots of swimming !!
Destiny·
I swim three times a week it's not helping it does make me contract a little bit
Destiny·
@jackscatss,
Jackie·
Мама дочки-младенца
@dessy9671, keep it up tho. You're still a little early but the last week it'll make a difference . I didn't start swimming until after 37 weeks and I only swam like 3 times before I had my baby. The day before I had her I was in the pool doing laps like crazy lol