okay I need words of advice and possibly some encouragement. I'm 18 and my hubby is 20. I'm 30 weeks pregnant. We live with my parents. my mom is seriously a narcissist and my dad is an enabler when it comes to how she acts and treats me. We started setting up a nursery in their home because we thought we were going to be staying with them a while after the baby is born. but, hubby got a great new job and now we can afford our own place. I just told my parents we might be getting approved for the place we want and they are the exact opposite of supportive. Hubby's job is an hour away from my parents house , so the house we are trying to get approved for is obviously much closer to work (about 10 minutes away) which means its about a 50 minute drive from them. my mom said "oh so now I'm cut out" as in I'm cutting her out of my babies life. which is not true we would just have to drive to her or her to us to visit... I feel like my parents should be more supportive of this because shouldn't I be able to have my own home if I'm going to have a baby? They are acting like I've stomped on their feelings when in reality the house we are sharing is too small for all of us and I just really want my own space. Now I feel guilty for even wanting my own home. how do I deal with this? should I feel guilty or are they not being supportive enough that I'm trying to be an adult? my mom is acting like I can't do this on my own without her and its making me second guess myself. I'm in desperate need of some support right now 🤕