Okay but being a sahm is not the same as being a single mom. It isn't fair to single mom's who have to provide for the home and then take care of a kid by themselves. I have multiple people in my life who complain about practically being a single mom because they are BLESSED to have the opportunity to be home and raise their kid. I don't complain because I know how lucky I am and how hard it is for my husband to have to leave us. Get a job if it's too hard to stay home.