For those of you who constantly bash/complain about your significant other; Take a moment and realize how incredibly…

you go girl!!!! I am doing the same thing most likely when my son gets here BC his dad is not on my good side one bit!!!!!!! @jortiz1290

Oh I definitely plan to file once I have my baby!! @britthardy

o ok.... hhhmmm just do it girl if you guys are having problems it will be worth it in the end @jortiz1290

Plus who knows how long it'll take once I do!

Because I haven't had my baby yet @britthardy

why don't you put the father on child support? @jortiz1290

@jortiz1290 its sad sad sad.

That's really sad because no one "needs" a man. Especially as a mother, you have to be a strong woman and a good role model for your child. Letting a man treat you poorly is not the message you should be showing your child! Ugh, that is just one thing I will never understand..... @phasion

@jortiz1290 girl i couldnt agree with you more lol but i notice some women feel like they "need" a man or they feel like its going to easier ... but i just keep my mouth shut on that lol. i seen someone say "he treats me like shit but i cant leave" lord knows i wanted to say something but i just left it alone lol

Well they shouldn't be their significant others if they have nothing to do with their child! I wouldn't stay with someone if they didn't support my child, hence why I left mine lol @phasion

i think thats why they're bashing because most of their s/o doesn't do anything or have nothing to do with the child

@jortiz1290, I never got that either, yes my husband can get on my last nerve but I would never sit there and bash him like some of these moms on here do. He gets up everyday and works his but off and sometimes he comes home and just wants to sleep or play his games and yes I would like to spend time with him but he also needs time to just relax. He is giving me the option to stay home with our son once he is born and he will just work. I don't know if just never understood the need to bash your husband or bf I mean they choose that person to have a baby with so why complain now they should have thought how that person is before choosing to have a baby with them.

But if a woman is unhappy with a man she should leave him. Everyone has a choice. @lilangulo8

girl they dont act like that when u meet them its after the fact...men know how to play the part..

Well why would a mother choose to be with someone who acts as a zombie? That's on them.... @lilangulo8

Love changes people. If we focus on how we can meet our spouses needs, eventually they may be won over, reminded of why they chose you in the first place. Anyway, that's how my spouse and I try to behave, and God blesses that!

why have someone who is there but only as a zombie same shit as being alone...

I know it's not, but he's missing out (: just stay positive and do everything to keep your baby happy.

Thank you @kavalos !

I agree & disagree with you. Even if someone isn't very loving they can still be supportive! When you're only one and literally have to do everything on your own, be the bread winner, take care of the baby etc. it makes it harder to be the best parent possible. However I'm sure there are situations where it would be best with one parent. @californiahaley props to you @leonardo03-13-15 being a single mom isn't easy!

I am grateful for my husband every day. I have so much respect for you single mommies, I was raised by one and even though it's tough it was great. Best of luck to you.

Idk how women can bash someone they love. I would never say anything bad about my husband, even if we had an argument.

One extremely loving parent is better then 1 loving and the other non loving. Specially if the parents don't get along with each other. It'll be hard on your own but if that's what's best for your baby you'll do a fantastic job. 😘

We're on the same boat 😒