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BANNED - Charlotte
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Мама сына (2 года), беременна (40 нед.)

I was a bit unsure as to whether to post this picture, but I thought why not he is my son at the end of the day! 💙

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I was a bit unsure as to whether to post this picture, but I thought why not he is my son at the end of the day! 💙

Back in April 2014 I was driving home from work. I decided to go a different way due to traffic. Half way through my journey I was ran off the road by a lorry. My car flipped and landed roof down in a ditch. I don't recall anything as I was unconscious. A witness spoke to me after the accident saying I was airlifted to hospital in a critical condition. My partner Blake was by my side the whole time in hospital.

I woke up in excruciating pain. A midwife came in with her head down looking very upset. She said two simple words.. 'I'm sorry'. She went on to explain that I had suffered a placental abruption so the baby wasn't getting any oxygen or any nutrients it needed to survive. She explained that my son had died inside my tummy, and that I would need to deliver him. I just broke down 😒. I asked if I could keep him inside me for a few extra days and she agreed, but I had to stay in hospital.

So on May 3rd at 08:30am I was induced and 6 hours later at 2:38pm Brody was born. He looked perfect. He was born at 34 + 4 weighing 5lbs 13oz. Me and Blake were in love. The hospital were so kind, they got us a photographer to capture the moments we shared. I was so in love and overwhelmed.

It was weird going home without a baby. His funeral took place and it was amazing. He's always here with us, and he's blessed me and Blake with another little boy.

Brody Isaiah Humphrey's, our little Angel 👼🏻💙

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heavenscent83

Becky GriffithsМама сына-младенца

so sorry for your loss, bought me to tears reading your story xx

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emma23g

EmmaМама дочки-младенца

Such a heartbreaking story 😔 it brought tears to my eyes. All the best with your pregnancy xx

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xkathrynlouise

KathrynВ ожидании первенца

Actually brought tears to my eyes. so sad but so nice how positive you are and I can tell that you loved him from your words and the perfect picture really does capture everything. 💖 god bless him being gifted with perfect parents and congratulations with the news of your baby boy. x

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charl0tte_

BANNED - CharlotteМама сына (2 года), беременна (40 нед.)

Thankyou ladies. Means a lot 💙💙💙

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charney91x

CharneyВ ожидании первенца

So so sorry for your loss! What a beautiful picture though ❤️ xxx

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missy84

MeciaВ ожидании первенца

What a gorgeous little boy. So sorry for your loss. Wish you all the best with ur pregnancy xx

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babypuma

AnnaВ ожидании первенца

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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karenb1601

Karen BaileyМама двоих (младенец)

so sorry for yr loss and i wish u a happy healthy time for the rest of yr pregnancy xx

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mioaurellia

MioМама дочки-младенца

I'm so sorry for your loss. I guess I understand how you were feeling then. You're stronger than I am, I wish you all the best hun... xx

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emmaelaine

EmmaВ ожидании первенца

❤️❤️❤️

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sarah396

sarah396Мама сына-младенца

Heartbreaking 💔 😢 but what a beautiful picture. Brody will be watching over you, congratulations on your pregnancy

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staceyymzack

Stacey MarieМама сына-младенца

So sorry for your loss. Must say I think your an incredibly strong woman. And that's a beautiful photo. Xx

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