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Whitney Triche
Whitney Triche
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I just feel the need the need to vent today, on a few things. First, the whole being a mom AND a wife thing is VERY…

I just feel the need the need to vent today, on a few things.

First, the whole being a mom AND a wife thing is VERY draining and I don't know how to mesh the two together.

Second, being a working mother makes me so jealous of all of the mommies around me that get to spend all day with their babies.

Third, The body that I am in, I hate. It's saggy, fat, floppy, jiggly, and scarred.

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whitneytriche

Whitney TricheМама дочки-младенца

@ang20, 3 weeks old? You guys will get in a routine. We're 2 months now. You learn to live with and function with sleep deprivation. I promise. I can't say it gets better, yet. Bug I can say it gets easier.

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ang20

AngelМама дочки-младенца

@whitneytriche, omg yes! He was off work for two weeks to hell he went back now I feel so lost she cries an I feel like crying an running away. I hate not knowing what she wants an I feel so bad when I'm feeding her an I'm like dosing off on her

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whitneytriche

Whitney TricheМама дочки-младенца

@ang20, Yes, it's so easy to feel like you fail at EVERYTHING! I feel like I'm having trouble juggling my life.

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ang20

AngelМама дочки-младенца

@whitneytriche, life does change a lot with a baby.. I lost a lot of my friends. I feel less connected to my fiancé, an I feel lik a failure as a mom. I wish I had a job to go to but Ik I'd still wanna be at home

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whitneytriche

Whitney TricheМама дочки-младенца

@ang20, Life changes so much post baby. I spend more time at my job, with my co workers than with my baby. And I simply feel like I neglect my marriage to be a mom.

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ang20

AngelМама дочки-младенца

I'm not a wife yet. But I kinda know how you feel. I don't work but I take care of my daughter, two dogs do laundry taking my one dog to vet apts. doing laundry an deal with a little post pardon depression.. Plus I feel gross an flabby but the fiancé doesn't get how I feel.. I've always been self conscious of my body cause I always felt fat an I was a tad bigger when I got pregnant.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?