I just feel the need the need to vent today, on a few things.
First, the whole being a mom AND a wife thing is VERY draining and I don't know how to mesh the two together.
Second, being a working mother makes me so jealous of all of the mommies around me that get to spend all day with their babies.
Third, The body that I am in, I hate. It's saggy, fat, floppy, jiggly, and scarred.
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@whitneytriche, omg yes! He was off work for two weeks to hell he went back now I feel so lost she cries an I feel like crying an running away. I hate not knowing what she wants an I feel so bad when I'm feeding her an I'm like dosing off on her
@ang20, Yes, it's so easy to feel like you fail at EVERYTHING! I feel like I'm having trouble juggling my life.
@whitneytriche, life does change a lot with a baby.. I lost a lot of my friends. I feel less connected to my fiancé, an I feel lik a failure as a mom. I wish I had a job to go to but Ik I'd still wanna be at home
@ang20, Life changes so much post baby. I spend more time at my job, with my co workers than with my baby. And I simply feel like I neglect my marriage to be a mom.
I'm not a wife yet. But I kinda know how you feel. I don't work but I take care of my daughter, two dogs do laundry taking my one dog to vet apts. doing laundry an deal with a little post pardon depression.. Plus I feel gross an flabby but the fiancé doesn't get how I feel.. I've always been self conscious of my body cause I always felt fat an I was a tad bigger when I got pregnant.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
With all this food being posted I thought this might be fun.
I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Thanks for all the ❤️ guys! I think I'm in shock! Labor story in a bit I'm being attacked with visitors lol
@ang20, 3 weeks old? You guys will get in a routine. We're 2 months now. You learn to live with and function with sleep deprivation. I promise. I can't say it gets better, yet. Bug I can say it gets easier.