I literally have a man sitting in my freaking house asking me how I know I'm ready to even be a mom.... Really???

he sounds like he's not a good dad at all! and it should get too you he doesn't have any right saying things like that people like thy disgust me! I would of told him to leave straight up

@ktwins188, I'm so over tonight. I'm just pissed off and I know I shouldn't be like that but I don't feel like he had any right to talk like that. He had 2 kids from 2 different women before he got out of high school and yes they get onto him EVERYDAY because he doesn't do what he's supposed too, he never visits them. so of course they're always "in his ear." I'm sorry I'm venting, I just needed a second to get it off my chest. My husband and I have 2 angel babies , it was like, how dare you say something like that to us knowing everything we've been going through to have a baby.

ew , dont allow that kind of person in your home

no, @ktwins188 not my husband, he's a friend telling my husband, dude you really don't want kids. You'll constantly have her in your ear and then the baby fucking crying all night and you won't want to go to work and then all the money, trust me it's not worth it. so I said UMMMM Excuse me, we want a baby and that's when he started in on his bullshit with me.

hes just scared to be a dad