oh gosh I could just imagine. My allergies get so bad at my sisters house too. I swear I get light headed from just instinctively not breathing so much. 4 women and a toddler and it's in that condition!? omg did no one teach them how to make a house a home.. ?! Good! you have every right to tell them. that's your baby!

@mommakaz, exactly that's what I told my husband. Everytime we go my husband's allergies get very bad now imagine my baby. Her immune system isn't that strong. I talked to my mother in law yesterday and told her straight out that she needed to clean her house, there's 4 adult woman on that house and a toddler and they can't keep the house clean at all!! I have a 5 year old a 4 year old autistic and a new born and still manage to keep my house clean. she got upset at me but theirs nothing I can do it's my daughter and I'm not going to risk it !!!

@kasieerin, my mom doesn't allow her cat inside since I got pregnant because she said it was really bad for me and she always keeps her house impeccable on the other hand mY mother in law never has her house clean it always smells like pee because of the dog and my 14 years old sister in law pees on the couches or her room and the whole house stinks. so I tell her it's best of its her the one who comes over.

Not at all. I refuse to let my sister take my lil dude to her house until she cleans up. I'm still pregnant and she has the time to clean it. but refuses. Her house smells like dog pee and poop. She owns 7 rats and NEVER cleans their cages so it smells horrible. and even the furniture is covered in dog hair, dog pee/poop and rat pee/poo. I don't even want to be there, why the hell would I want my newborn there.

no... my sister refused to take my nephews to my mom's bc my mom has three dogs and a cat and they all shit everywhere and it's disgusting... she'd rather stay at my house with no ac then be at moms...