I had decided pretty early on that I didn't want a bunch of people visiting us in the hospital. I am not comfortable in hospitals or around doctors and I suffer from pretty severe anxiety. I have family that I see maybe once every three months who are now calling me selfish and rude and bratty because of my decision. Am I being unreasonable?
Organ donor I was at the DMV today and I noticed that nobody... literally nobody said yes to being an organ donor when asked. It is really that uncommon? If you're not, what are your reasons for not being one? I am aware this is pretty taboo to talk about.
And I am home from the hospital and I actually give up 😪😪😪😪😪😪😪
Is it rude to not want anyone at the hospital? I was just informed that my MIL wants to be waiting at the hospital so as soon as I pop out the baby she can rush in to be with the baby. I am really a private person and dont really want anyone at the hospital when I give birth (except my husband). I was planning on calling all the family to come to the hospital once I was all cleaned up and ready for visitors. Am I being rude? How do I tell them I dont want visitors a minute after pushing out a baby?! I would like some private time for just my husband & I!
Am I seeing things....
Miscarriage I'm 6w1d and pretty sure I am losing the baby.
Mrs.Young·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (32 нед.)
No you are not
Eryn Sanford·
Мама дочки-младенца
no i didnt let anyone but like 3 people come see me
Janni·
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@mommyagain, @trinitysmommy some of my family members are being so hateful and rude about it all. I explained the reasons why and they didn't care.
Ashlynn Sloan·
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Tell them to shove it. The only people going to be at the hospital for me are me and my husband.
Aliona·
I'm sorry:( it's your family been unreasonable. you do whatever you feel comfortable. like I don't want to have baby shower and get whole bunch of people touching my belly.
New Mexico·
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It's your life, your body, your family, your baby, your special moment, and your decision. I'm in the exact same boat. I have severe anxiety, especially with hospitals and doctors. I'm saying no to everyone. They can all cry about it for awhile honestly. because God knows after they're done being big babies, they are still gunna want to see you and the baby at some point. Don't let them get to you.
Lynise·
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No I'm the same way. I don't want anyone but my direct family (parents and my boyfriends parents) no visitors until I'm home and adjusted to my daughters schedule. I also want privacy bc I wanna learn how to bond with her I'm so nervous and I don't need a lot of ppl opinions
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (24 нед.)
Nope you're not. I see no reason for people who aren't close friends or family to be there. My SO and I aren't even telling anyone aside from the babies godmother that we're in the hospital until after the baby has arrived. We want our time with him before everyone comes.
Kristen Rosasco·
No one but my husband is gonna know I even went into labor until me and baby are discharged 😊