Am I seeing things....

Never use blood on a urine test. It's not an accurate result.

@leximonae1k sorry u didn't get the memo but telling someone to stop using the cheap dollar test and telling them to go somewhere where they use the SAME cheap dollar test is crazy the cheap test work just as good if not better that's all I've used with all 6 of my kids ranging from 3-6 weeks pregnant

I keep getting these stabbing pains in the inside of my V on the left period still haven’t come it’s driving me crazy I wish it would come already

I will never talk to him again I’m sure he will come back eventually but I won’t there lol

I actually feel better now that I know the truth lol

How can someone leave you because of there anger wth

Ok I know it’s coming Ive been having cramps all day thanks again for all your help and the advice you have given me

Spotting is normal before your period right? I know I’m not pregnant just asking

I’ll look into birth control

Thanks for helping me

How long can you go without a period though?

@ashleyvaughn20133, What we are saying comes from true life experiences. Things we’ve struggled through and come out on top of. It makes you who you are.

You both are right

@ashleyvaughn20133, Thank you. What one looks like is minor on the grand scale though. It’s what’s inside you that’s pretty or beautiful. Who you are as a human being is what matters. Me I’m just a girl named Heather living her best life with her husband and kids. I’ve had struggles, dark moments, regrets, and anything else a true human can lay claim to. As my gal @spookylyn, said it’s something you choose, and you need to choose to pick yourself up and troop out of this proverbial mud.

@ashleyvaughn20133, Not an excuse. Your choosing not to be strong, and your not even faced with something that awful in reality. Your wallowing in self pity. You need to speak to a medical professional because you could be suffering from depression. You need to help yourself ❤️

Beaky you are so pretty

I’m not strong like y’all are

@ashleyvaughn20133, You need to stop trying to understand why someone did something to you, and move on...your dwelling on it and it’s not healthy. Yes break ups suck..many things are awful but you can’t dwell. I have a son with special needs because a doctor made a careless horrible mistake and caused him massive brain injury at birth...I didn’t sit around asking why this person chose to make that mistake..I put my chin up and dealt with life and thanked my lucky stars for my son who I adore. Dwelling on it surely would have ruined my life if I’d have let those feelings eat me away. He’s my hero. Things in life suck. I stood there 4 years ago while a neurosurgeon and neurologist told me they’d help my son to live the best life he can. Brutally honest things In life aren’t always easy. There’s people who couldn’t afford to feed themselves while putting them self through university including myself and I’m now an RN with a bachelors in science who works in labour and delivery. There will always be things in life that are sad or hard and you won’t always understand why. Your holding onto the hope your pregnant because in some way you’ve convinced yourself that will bring him back. @spookylyn is right you need to and can move past this.

I just don’t see how someone can pretend to love someone when all they did was use you

@spookylyn, Thanks I truly appreciate that 👯‍♀️ #SistersFromOtherMisters

Right it's not easy ppl think it is but it's not

@freshstart82017, I agree I was a single mom once and boy its not easy.

I never thought he would have left me I was so sweet and nice to him that night when I left his house he didn’t really want anything to do with me....I can’t talk about this anymore. I’m making myself look bad

@ashleyvaughn20133 so you've been waiting for someone to leave you because of your weight your whole life ?? That's what your saying??

It’s hard to let go of something you’ve been waiting for your whole life...and I am listening to your advice.

@ashleyvaughn20133 what do you need his support with ?? From what I see, nothing !! You aren't pregnant and u definetly don't need to be in contact with his sorry ass. Sorry not sorry!!

He dont love u

A man aint goung to stay with u because ur pregnant

Im not tryin to be mean but i dony think ur pregnant

@beakymcspence see I didn't get pregnant on purpose but I'm a single mother doing the duties of a mom I hate my bd like @beakymcspence that's no reason to wanna be pregnant that's stupid on so many levels @ashleyvaughn20133 ur grown I'm not even with my bd nor I'm dating my baby boy and my daughter is more important then dating a guy fuck men for real u need to wake up and smell the coffee young lady ur grown ur 23 yrs old and if ur that scared like I told u .u should of never had sex but u keep talking about it u need to stop talking about u being pregnant and see a doctor bc there alot of woman trying to help u and give u advice but seems ur not listening to them sorry for this to be long but it's really annoying to hear this shit like for real GROW UP SEE A DOC INSTEAD OF DIAGNOSING YOURSELF !!!!!!!!!!

I will

I told him that I need his support because I can’t do this alone he basically told me to read the Bible and talk to god that would help me more than he ever could

I mean I’m ok it hurts but I’ll get through it

4 months

How long were y'all together anyways?

@ashleyvaughn20133 then he definetly doesn't love you for who you are ??? Weight shouldn't matter ! He doesn't love you, get over him, and move on.. there's someone better for you !

He left me because of my weight

@ashleyvaughn20133 but why waste your time loving someone that obviously doesn't love you back ? If he loved you, he would've never left !!

I love him😢

A baby isn't gonna make him come back!! Or make anything better. But I agree with the other ladies, there's no way you are pregnant. Look at it as a blessing, considering the circumstances surrounding the situation.

Throwing a baby into the mix would only make situations worse !! Definetly not healthy !! If he left you, good.. let him be !!

@ashleyvaughn20133, You talked about having a baby? How long had you been together?

We had talked about having a baby then he just leaves me i would have been a good mother

There’s a little thing called entrapment.

@ashleyvaughn20133, OMG that’s not a reason to bring a child into the world?? Are you 12? Bringing a child into the world because that’s the way he will stay with you is disgusting on several levels. @spookylyn, Help me out here.

Because if I am then he will be with me that’s why I want to be

I don’t have anyone to talk to about it

Im gettin tired of it now though her keep talkin about it

I know she not pregnant she wounts to be

@lawsondeaja, Because in the end I don’t think she wants to believe or be told she’s not pregnant.

Why wount u see a doc

@ashleyvaughn20133 periods change. It can be normal.

I had a really light period July31st it didn’t last 5 days it was more like 3 and the blood wasn’t normal within 10 minutes it turned brown and when it finished it was light pink y’all may think I’m making this up to get attention and that’s not the case I know my body and it’s changing it’s not normal

She needs to get checked

This would be a test done with blood FYI. Which shouldn’t be done but yours definitely isn’t done with blood.

@spookylyn, Truer words were never spoken. For starters if you had sex on the 13th then you’d have definite lines by now. I conceived on July 24th and my tests are very obvious as I’m 8 weeks along.. Second urine tests are called urine tests for a reason hun you don’t put blood on them and it renders them invalid. Also if you’d put blood on this test like you say the background would be red not white lol 🙄 I’ve seen people put blood on tests and it runs up the test red because yep bloods red.

July 13th

If you're not getting positive urine tests then there's really no reason to be stressed out about being pregnant. When's the last time you had unprotected sex?...

@ashleyvaughn20133 well you have a decision to make in regards this baby (if that's even the case) and the sooner you take care of the situation the better.

It’s ok I don’t but I know stressing I will I just don’t see how the father doesn’t even care about his own baby and support me during this

@ashleyvaughn20133 but if ur tht scared u should of used protection im sorry to say i had my first child at 21 she is 5yr old now and im a single mom and im 31 weeks and 1 day pregnant and to my son Im a single mom u need to not be scared and get to the doc im not trying to be rude but u could lose this baby if u don't get the help u need inless u want to lose it and just forget its there but thts the wrong thing to do

Just scared but I am going to go

@ashleyvaughn20133. U should have been went to the doctor why are u waiting ? Are u scared ? Or scared of what ur parents might say ur 23 ur grown u can make ur own decisions i was scared to tell my parents but i did it and im 25

U should have been with forgrt ur family ur grown

It’s ok it’s just my family will be mad at me cause the guy is not a good guy it’s my fault I got myself into this situation but I know I have to go regardless

Went ur grown

U should have been wrnt

@ashleyvaughn20133 good not trying to be mean but u need to go asap

I’m going this week

If ur tht scared u should of never got pregnant u should of used protection but u need to go to the doctor ur 23 yrs old im not trying to be mean but i was 4 or 3 weeks when my tests came out positive U NEED TO GET TO A DOCTOR im 25 never been off my parents insurance and everything's covered im not trying to be rude but u need to see a doctor instead of testing u need a doctor to confirm it im sorry if none of u woman like it but im speaking the dam truth its very important u go its ur first trimester

Doc

Why wount you go to the foc

People have been telling her to go to the Dr and she ignores them

@leximonae1k, I agree just go tot he doctor

@mrshammond17 everyday that line should be darker and by 8 super dark

@tosha6 me too

I think I see a faint line, just test again tomorrow - it should get darker if positive

@ashleyvaughn20133 hun I know how crazy and stressful this time is but just wait a couple days before u test again good luck

@leximonae1k sorry u didn't get the memo but telling someone to stop using the cheap dollar test and telling them to go somewhere where they use the SAME cheap dollar test is crazy the cheap test work just as good if not better that's all I've used with all 6 of my kids ranging from 3-6 weeks pregnant

Or just go to Planned Parenthood or a Doctor. You prolly wasting money keep taking those tests.

If you can keep buying the cheap ones you should probably invest in a better one. Like first response or clear blue... seems like these ain’t doing you much good.

Take another one in a week

@ashleyvaughn20133 take another test. First response or clear blue.

I’m not I thought I was but I guess I ovulated late in my cycle...

You've been posting about negative tests and saying your 8 weeks but if you were 8 weeks your lines would be clearer. You may not be that far along like you thought.

Never use blood on a urine test. It's not an accurate result.

To be honest I used blood on that test... I’ve seen girls that use there own blood

I see a very faint line

Can you post a clear picture of the test taken during the timeframe? It's blurry. And these tests give really bad evap lines and dye runs.

I see it, very faint, but that's what mine looked like