RANT: (long but please read if you can)
I went from being SO proud of my daughter's dad to dissapointed af.
He was FINALLY making an effort to be there for Charlotte and Joey (my two year old he stepped up for)
He was calling and talking to Joey at least twice a week, asking about both kiddos every day and asking how I was feeling as well. Him and I had agreed to do things while he was single and then still be friends, which was going great. we fooled around once then he said he was talking to someone so I backed off like an adult. I asked him to come over for a few days to help with Joey so my mom and I could both rest. Well he came out, we fooled around because he and that chick were just friends and what not. well we dropped him off and him and I talked the next 3 days. Well, he and that chick got together and he completely stopped contact with me unless I messaged him. I called him out on it and he got pissed off with me stating that he didn't need to talk to me every day about the kids and him and I weren't friends just Co parents etc. then I called him out on ALL the bullshit from just this week alone and he started threatening CPS and court and saying how I gave up on my son and if it wasn't for him I wouldn't have my two year old back etc. All because I told him to grow up, get a job and he wasn't being in the delivery room because I wasn't dealing with the fighting or his bullshit. Like I'm done and I'm not sure what to do. I'm pissed off that a 3 year friendship is gone because he wanted to be an ass to show off to his girl and I am stuck hurt because I love the fuck out of him. I'm filing a anti harrasment order if possible as well as hopefully a restraining order for BOTH babies due to his threat of CPS over nothing and the fact that he used the term he would be going to jail after we got in a huge fight and made it sound like a threat. I'm so lost and Confused. And HURT ugh:(
He definitely doesn't sound like even half of a man worth all of that bullshit you are going through. I would have dropped him faster then hell. Hopefully things work out for you.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
I find it pretty hilarious how people who have shown their true colors on social media snake away, delete the posts that outed them and come back on social media like nothing happened. Why do that, you outed yourself, so stay out. We still see you boo boo...
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I've blocked every way for him to contact me. told his mom what happened and she sided with me. little punk needs to pull his shit together. His mom has be telling me to cut his ass off for months lol