RANT: (long but please read if you can)
I went from being SO proud of my daughter's dad to dissapointed af.
He was FINALLY making an effort to be there for Charlotte and Joey (my two year old he stepped up for)
He was calling and talking to Joey at least twice a week, asking about both kiddos every day and asking how I was feeling as well. Him and I had agreed to do things while he was single and then still be friends, which was going great. we fooled around once then he said he was talking to someone so I backed off like an adult. I asked him to come over for a few days to help with Joey so my mom and I could both rest. Well he came out, we fooled around because he and that chick were just friends and what not. well we dropped him off and him and I talked the next 3 days. Well, he and that chick got together and he completely stopped contact with me unless I messaged him. I called him out on it and he got pissed off with me stating that he didn't need to talk to me every day about the kids and him and I weren't friends just Co parents etc. then I called him out on ALL the bullshit from just this week alone and he started threatening CPS and court and saying how I gave up on my son and if it wasn't for him I wouldn't have my two year old back etc. All because I told him to grow up, get a job and he wasn't being in the delivery room because I wasn't dealing with the fighting or his bullshit. Like I'm done and I'm not sure what to do. I'm pissed off that a 3 year friendship is gone because he wanted to be an ass to show off to his girl and I am stuck hurt because I love the fuck out of him. I'm filing a anti harrasment order if possible as well as hopefully a restraining order for BOTH babies due to his threat of CPS over nothing and the fact that he used the term he would be going to jail after we got in a huge fight and made it sound like a threat. I'm so lost and Confused. And HURT ugh:(
He definitely doesn't sound like even half of a man worth all of that bullshit you are going through. I would have dropped him faster then hell. Hopefully things work out for you.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
First real case of Discrimination today. 😯
General Contractor kept asking where my SO when I was pulling off the job. Even said ‘How come he doesn’t come here and talk to me like a man’. Wow. I ended up calling the police because felt threatened in how defensive he was talking. Sheesh.
I talked to a friend in the industry and told him everything that happen and he cut me off yelling ‘THATS DISCRIMINATION!’
Do I let it go? Or take him to court?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...






Before anyone says anything. I was right there with him it wasn't deep yes it has two little holes in it bc of our cat. But he loved the pool for the first time! The ones with his shirt off wasnt the whole time he was out there we didn't stay out long bc of not having sunscreen and it was 91°
I've blocked every way for him to contact me. told his mom what happened and she sided with me. little punk needs to pull his shit together. His mom has be telling me to cut his ass off for months lol