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Veronica Collins
Veronica Collins
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Pregnancy is supposed to be a happy time for any woman. But sadly I've been nothing but depressed and so stressed out to…

Pregnancy is supposed to be a happy time for any woman. But sadly I've been nothing but depressed and so stressed out to where I'm no longer excited. I know I should be happy that I'm even able to be pregnant because of the ones who have a hard time having children. But I'm not. Everyone has made me feel like complete shit every day. My ex's 18 year old gf and her friends do everything they can to start stuff with me every day and I've had to get no contact orders on them to not be in contact with me or my children. I'm not looking for sympathy I just have no one to talk to or anything anymore everyone's left me in the dirt.

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veronicaann

Veronica CollinsВ ожидании первенца

He knows that he's their father and this baby's father he just chooses to be with someone else rather than see his kids. I got a no contact order for my kids against her so she couldn't come around them at all. I have residential rights which means I get the house. He's supposed to be playin child support but his gf told him not to because it's not worth paying me a dime. Even though I spent 5 years with this guy and endured his mental, emotional, and physical abuse. I was cheated on all the time and still stayed because of our children and I wanted him in their life. But if he's going to choose her over them he doesn't need to be around at all. I've done all I can do. I was in the hospital yesterday making sure my baby was okay because she wasn't moving much at all and they said she is under distress. All this pain and stress they have caused me is causing me even more issues with my pregnancy and I'm trying to eliminate all of it if that means him to then so be it. He's an immature asshole who deserves nothing.

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sydneyh

SydВ ожидании первенца

if you need someone to talk to your more then welcome to inbox me. :)

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armyvet_working_mom_of_4

Melinda ParkerМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Oh wasn't asking to give a speech, I promise. I can see why it's bothering you. I would hold on to the harrassments, and actually get them in trouble. If he kicked you out, and no judgr signed notice or something like that. Technically you should have 30 days, some states allow more. I am not saying to go back there, but technically the "girlfriend" can't do squat. Also get the DNA test, so you have proof. I promise I am not saying you're lying, but now days everything runs off proof. Then I would go file child support, and make him pay for those kids. Little does he know if you need welfare, he has to pay it back. At least that's how it worked for my mom, back in the day. That's up to you though. An 18 year old has no right to hassle you at this point in time, because she is probably threathened by you. I mean by what I see in your picture, You're very beautiful. I can say she probably isn't.

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veronicaann

Veronica CollinsВ ожидании первенца

Yeah, but it's not like he sees them anyways. If I ask him if he wants to see them he says when do I have the time. Or he just completely ignores anything then wants to tell me how worthless I am and that I'm a stupid bitch, cunt, etc.

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armyvet_working_mom_of_4

Melinda ParkerМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Are those kids his too?

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veronicaann

Veronica CollinsВ ожидании первенца

I'm trying not too. I've gotten a no contact order for my children especially against his gf and he's still choosing her. She threatened to throw all my stuff out of the house and move hers in and turn my children's bedrooms into her closet. Then had her friends start on me bc I blocked her on social media. I post stupid pictures all the time not like I'm blasting anyone or saying anything on there and I'm still the bad person. I'm to the point I'm going to get a no contact order on him to so my children aren't being hurt or chosen last anymore

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lumbeemama

TayВ ожидании первенца

Don't take anyone's shit. You're a trooper.

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