
My birth story
**do not read if your screamish or scared about labour**
3 weeks ago I had my little boy, I was induced due to reduced movements, the pessarys did not work very well, sweep also was ineffective and ended up being moved to the consultant led unit and had my waters broke even though I was only 1cm....nothing was happening so they put me on the drip and ended up over stimulating me so my contractions were coming but never easing off! I had gas and air and ended up having a shot of morphine so I could sleep between contractions when they turned the drip down, I kept pulling the straps off that measure the contractions and the babys heart rate so they put a clip on babys head, When the morphine had worn off a bit I was in agony and had a emence urge to push, they examined me and said that one side of my cervix was fully dialated whilst the other was stuck at 6cm they told me to role onto the other side to try even it out....when i eventually managed to get onto the other side my babys heart beat dropped and wasnt recovering so they pulled the emergency button and half the hospital was in my room in seconds! they took half the bed away and i ended up having emergency forcep delivery...my son had the cord wrapped firmly round his neck hence the reduced movements and hence the dip in his heart rate during contractions, wasnt till after that I discovered I had tore inside, outside and was cut further, the lady stitching me up was down there a good 45 mins! I kept the gas and air as she thought id had an epidural and was stiching me without anesthetic till the adrenaline wore off and I said something to her, in the end the anesthetic she injected didnt bloody work anyway!😂 After such a horrible labour I can say that all the pain was totally worth having my lil boy here safely!
Oh wow. congratulations hun. The joys of becoming a mother
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Wow! well done & congratulations X