I'm young. I just turned 20 in March. A lot of my family is old school and wanted me to wait to have a family. I wasn't planning on getting pregnant it just happened. I've had months to come to terms with everything and figure out a plan. I just hate how when I finally decided to tell everyone that my aunts decided to post a comment basically saying they are disappointed. Could they not have sent me a private message?!
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Yea that's what I have to love with for now I hope she gets over it but my in laws are in support
@paula91, I'm sorry. It must be hard coming from your mom. My mom and I are really close and I can't even imagine how hard it would be if she wasn't supportive of me
I am 24 and my mum is just so judge mental saying I can't do it and all that I am just really upset with her but I hope she comes in terms with it
Honestly the best piece of advice I've ever gotten is "if you're happy fuck what everyone else thinks" (sorry for the language lol)
I was 18 when I had my first. I learned quickly to never seek acceptance from anyone. Make your life what you want to make it. I graduated from college while having a job, and living on my own, as a single mother. You can do it!
I was 20 when I had my first daughter and I know exactly how you're feeling. It took my family a long time to come around but just like @samclark5 said, once your little one is around, nothing else is going to matter. That baby is going to change everything for the better, promise. 💕
Girl I feel your struggle I am 20 and have a 10 month old son and my step mom is so judge mental I mean fuck I married my husband has a full time job and we are both going no to college full time and she just thinks we are living of the government and is like you can't support two babies on student loans 😔🙄 news to her we have to pay those back stupid bitch 😒 sorry just a little angry over here
I'm sorry girl, I'm 20 also and my family feels the same way, I should've waited. Even though they might be disappointed now they are going to be so happy and excited and not able to remember what life was like without your baby in a few months. Just hang in there babe. Let them know they hurt your feelings.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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