okay so I just turned 20 weeks today and I'm currently working full-time at my job and babe has picked up a second job (third shift ) to be exact so while I'm working he's sleep and when I'm coming in the door he's leaving ..so our time has been limited anyone else dealing with this?? how do you cope with all the time apart?
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@lanajay23, that'd be good. I'm sure it would do you both good! Hopefully the opposite schedule thing doesn't last forever but having work is much better to not having work! Even if you hate the schedule or even hate the job, it is still good to have income!
awee thanks @kimberkatherine we have to squeeze a date in or something I'll try talking to him about it
@lanajay23, hey as long as you can fall asleep together, right? Doesn't matter what you're doing together as long as you can spend some time with one another. I hope things work out, momma!
@kimberkatherine, that's a good idea hopefully I'll be able to get through it because literally if we're both off lately we just fall asleep unintentionally
My husband and I had opposite schedules while I was working too. You just have to keep communicating and try to make the best of it. I would leave him little notes around the house and we would text and call or snap chat each other all day. It sucks but days off will line up occasionally and they're wonder ful.
hopefully we do because it feels like I haven't seen him like really seen him in weeks 😕 @ashalay88
Basically, some days are harder than others. I work nights, 11pm-7am,i get home around 7:45, he works 8:30am-5:30pm gets home around 6. I nap when my son naps and then at six I go to bed and he does child care. Our main time together is Sunday or Monday, in the evening, but even then it's pretty limited. It gets easier as time goes by, but you deff need to find the time to still date eachother!!
true it really is @kimberkatherine