So, my boyfriend ruins literally every special occasion. Every holiday, birthday, anniversary, and party...he always is either in a horrible mood and starts a fight or does things that make me really upset. Also, since I've been on bed rest I've had to bitch for 3-5 business days for him to do anything around the house. The things I have cleaned up he's made messy again and not cleaned it up. I don't know what to do I thought I was having one baby to take care of not two...
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@emkasting, thank you so much! And it's just so hard for me because he walks me around everywhere and takes care of me because I can't do much...but like there is so much around the house that needs done I would love to do and I just can't 😓
I'm sorry 😞 he sounds exactly like my father actually, in the way you describe him ruining every occasion. I know how absolutely frustrating that is. But as far as him complaining that he has to do everything around the house, fucking tough. You're carrying a baby which is hard work in itself. I was on bed rest until 30 weeks, it's not like you're sitting there having the time of your life while he does all the chores. There's probably a good reason you're on bed rest and you don't need any extra stress. He really needs to lighten up! I'm sorry, I wish there was something I could do
@jana.bear, thanks I appreciate it...and no not really everyone helped us move in but it's hard for them to help us clean up
I'm sorry girl. Do you have any friends who could come help? A couple of my close girlfriends have all offered to come help get things ready.
I totally understand! And he should too. You absolutely have to relax and make sure you don't over exert yourself. I know how much bed rest sucks. Find yourself a good series to binge watch, get comfy and try to stay positive :)