Should I feel some type of way that my BF parents never call me personally to see how the baby and I are doing??? BTW I made sure I tried to make them as involved as possible through out my pregnancy. By having the reveal party at their house. Giving them sonogram pics to keep. I even bought them a grand parents onsie for the announcement Ect... I've also made a couple phone calls them before. When I visit they are really happy and nice ppl they seem excited and all. But they NEVER not once called me to see how baby and I are doing! Yes maybe they asked their son but he is not carrying a child I doubt he knows much of shit unless I tell him.
Ladies please let me know am I wrong or hormonal for thinking this way???😒
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Honestly I don't hear from mil often, and we get along really well. My sil will call/text to check on the baby, and between her and my SO that's where mil gets her info. I'm sure if something was really wrong she would call me herself, luckily my first has never had any issues
@desi720, I know what you mean! People just suck.
@ladipaw, lol I wouldn't care if they were asshole but they are nice ppl idk whats the problem!
@darianweaver, not funny but damn sorry to here that. I just wish people would be more considerate
My in laws don't give a single solitary shit about me. If my husband could produce babies without me, I'd be useless.
@kbabyondway, exactly my point it's common courtesy I would think someone as old school as his parents would understand that. You are right I did nothing but open doors for them. He mom told me last 2month ago when I was over to call if I need anything. I'm not the type to call ppl only when I want something.
@lovinggunnar, that's sad I don't want it to be that way I had close grandparents on both sides
No not all I'm going through the same thing. My bf sends his mom pics of my belly without me knowing she constantly asked him how I'm doing and not me. She would call me in the beginning now she doesn't. And had the nerve to say to me I can keep her posted like I use to in the beginning, no u can call and text me and act like u care like in the beginning 😒
@lovinggunnar, yea see I never expect that from his family they seem to be thrilled and first time grandparents. They openly communicate with me but never called to check it's the only thing they don't do. I find it odd
For our situation I didn't hear from them very often, and if I did it was through him.. I herd from them through social media.. But nothing really more. They don't really visit either unless we go there, not really a close family I guess..
@lovinggunnar, @bianca_rose ok maybe I'm just being emotional. What are they going to do when baby gets here say she's sick he works and goes to school full time I mean they wouldn't call me to see how she's doing? I hope that's not the case😞
@lovemiithree, it's hard for me to understand them not being comfortable. Since before I was pregnant his mom and I talk a lot when I visit them still do they seem to adore me. When we are in person. I just don't get why they wouldn't have the decency to call and check on their grandchild and I.
I wouldn't be concerned, my mil doesn't call either, just asks my SO and if she sees me she'll ask me
Don't let it get to you, his parents never called me or anything.. I personally would think it's odd. Lol. They would ask if seeing me in person.. But never check ups..
they may not feel comfortable or they think asking him is enough I wouldn't let it get to me
Dad's FB Video!!
Did anyone see that video a dad posted on his daughters FB page? He saw a post she made where she bashed her parents and cursed them, called them lazy and told them they should pay her for stuff she did around the house... So he called her out on it and put the video on her page!! Sorry if I missed a post already about this already, but I just saw the video and IT WAS AWESOME!!! Hahahhaa!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I am so stressed right now!!!
My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me.
I feel like I should not see any at this point.
I love how sanctimommies feel the need to call me out on fb because I am all for spanking a child when they are doing something dangerous. Like you think I care? I'll raise my kids how I see fit, keep my name off your keyboard. They act like them calling me out is going to change how I parent. Like I dont know you, don't care what you think of me, and damn sure don't care that I hurt your feelings. 🤷🏽
Do you really think the way you are raised
Has no impact on when and how you decide to have sex? I read a comment on another thread that really rubbed me the wrong way. Something about how teens have sex and there's just no stopping it no matter how you raise them.
they just don't want to be a bother to you. . keep calm..lol