I feel the same way. I'm trying to change my thinking on that because sometimes it's inevitable.... But it's definitely not something I want to do

no momma don't blame yourself. if a c-section is what's required then it's because they are trying to get your little one out safely. this will be my third c-section and each one has been for the sake of my babies. never feel down on yourself. there's still hope for the birthing experience that you want!