I'm really annoyed that my daughter is two months old and her grandmother on her dads side still has not seen her. She does live 9 hours away but at this point I feel a greater effort could have been made. She didn't come to my baby shower either and her reason is still that she can't afford to come down. This week she is on spring break and said she would drive but she just texted and said she wasn't going to be able to make it yet again. This is her first grandchild.