I would move on it will always be b in the back of you head you young pretty I would focus on your baby and yourself a good man will come along one day

I appreciate yalls input. I know i sound like a dumb ass which is not like me. Trust me, I'm usually a bitch so idk why I'm being so gullible. I just don't tell me fam or friends bc I don't like ppl knowing my business just in case I go back or not. I have to act like I got everything under control.

I agee with @s_r_z_15

Being in an unhealthy relationship for the sake of her having a family isn't fair to her. She'd have her parents, yes, but they wouldn't be happy so what kind of a life is that? Do what is best for her, not what you want. It sounds harsh, but I'd say leaving is the better option. Being together for the sake of being a family isn't right and it's not fair or healthy for your LO either. He can still see her and visit her, but you guys won't be together. She'd still have her family, just not physically together. Like Lilo and Stitch. A broken family.

I just want her to have a family. it's not right for her sake. & i was planning on moving to lv esp so that I could at least spend a year with her. if I'm alone I'd have to put her in daycare & get my job back & I rly didn't want that. I'm sorry it's confusing, my minds everywhere.

As much as you might love him, it may be best to let him go. I don't know the full history between you two, but it sounds as if you both might do better without the other. I encourage the father to stay a part of your child's life as much as possible and hope that you two can remain civil for your child's sake if nothing else.