I've been so emotional lately and I feel like a cry baby, I've never been this sensitive before, I'm 22 weeks today & it seems like when my husband jokes with me or says something cute I shut down and cry cuhz I've gained weight since pregnancy, I love how I look even tho it'd not the same, but then if my hunnny says look at my feet their swollen or babe your stomach looks like a bag this cheese I laughed but cried so quickly after I just feel like since he's noticed I'm not the same as before I'm letting myself go, like he isn't attracted to me or he's gonna love Me less, but Idk why I think like this he's such a great guy and doesn't mean no harm, I just think different now, is this normal? or am I just taking things too personal?
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@kat616 yes I agree we talked last night because I felt hurt for what he said & I was so close for kicking him out but I went to my room and locked him out & then cooled down and talked to him he said hes just excited to see me like this & having our first baby but I just told him how I felt and he understood and was sorry but he's in love with the same me he met & don't mean anything bad
aaw i know with ny first i gained over 40 lbs my whole pregnancy and after I had my daugher i was chubby and didnt loose weight until last yr it was so hard and well now im pregnant again, with my first I would think he would cheat on me too or he would check other girls out but this time im like watever lol its just my mind messing around with me @lilfrankiesmommy
@jm10 thank you, its definitely hard because since we've been together he's always complimented me with everything, so now its my stomach and I just feel like am I gonna lose my husband or when were out I stare at him most the time thinking is he gonna check other women out and cheat because of how I look? but then I stop and think no he's not like that so I catch myself at times lol I've gained +20 pounds so I'm like babe after we have our son id like us to join a gym together, he said he's up for it, but when I'm ready, lol but he said I've recently started getting sensitive for me to stop that nothings going to change, he said I'm like this cuhz of him so he's happy with my looks he says its his first experience so he said he enjoys this, he buyys me flowers and snacks and rubbs my feet every night idk why I think like this? lol
I think it's nicer for men to give compliments about your looks rather than joking about them. Maybe you could tell him how you feel.
I felt the same with my first pregnancy especially once i started getting stretchmarks I would think the same, this time ill be 18 weeks this friday and sometimes he grabs my stomach and says damn your huge but after my miscarriage last yr im thankful and blessed god sent us another baby I had bleeding at 8 weeks with this pregnancy and when he jokes around like that I just laugh I love my baby and our bodies will get back to normal after birth if it doesnt right away it will with time just be happy and try not to think bad about him I know its hard sometimes esoecially when your emotional ☺ @lilfrankiesmommy
@jm10 yeah my mom said she thought stuff like that too but its just us being prego, so I was like okay but but I felt like I was being mean or taking things personal maybe it depends on the difference between joking or complimenting sometes I laugh at his jokes cuhz its funny but sometimes I find myself crying lol feel bipolar lol