it's hard I went to pick up my daughter and was surprised by family with a me shower. My now ex bf was OK but when I asked him to go with to a concert he said no and if you go we are done. I'm sorry I'm not rich so I'm not wasting tickets as I got ready and put my swollen feet up I was choked smacked around I had to call the police because he called his 3 sisters to handle me...I'm prego w/twins wtf. After all was done he sends these text saying how I broke his heart. Funny thing is out of all his crap I miss him so much and I've ignored him. Now I have to got to DMV today to take a pix with a knot on my forehead with a spilt above the knot let's pray MAC will help. Why am I so lame to miss him???
omg. I would definitely not stay home. u need to be where u can feel safe and I hope u got checked out after all that. If I were u I would go stay with family till ur kids are born and then move. no man that truly loves u would hit u or set u up in anyway. this truly breaks my for u. stay away from him and don't pick up his calls. change ur number n don't look back. prayers for u hun. be safe!
I'm so sorry! I've been through domestic violence in my past. It was the worst emotionally and physically draining thing I have ever went through in my life. I couldn't imagine going through it pregnant especially with twins. You have to stay strong for your babies. Most of the time the situation only gets worse. When i was with my ex who I thought loved me so much (he became addicted to drugs while we were together) after 2 years of the worst abuse I still loved him and wanted to be with him.. No one knew how abusive he was until one night I had enough and called the cops. And the state decided to press charges against him and place a restraining order. My life has been so much better since then! You don't deserve anyone who puts their hands on you then makes you try to feel bad!! Your children need a strong role model to look up to!! Sending you lots of hugs mama! I know it's tough! But if I can do it, so can you! I'm here if you ever need to talk! Make today a good day!!! Xo😘❤️
@showersoverflowers, thanks Hun no he's gone and thank God my children were not home. His son did see it all and the sheriff's made the others leave. And my brother is a sheriff so he and his buddies patrol my home almost every hour. I just never thought someone who claims to love me so much do this. I may consider to just move back to the east coast. I feel broken and my children miss it there but we have to wait till this surrogate job is done
I'm sorry but if you think your child should be around this man any longer, you need to wake up babe. If he has the capability of setting you up for physical violence, you need to involve the police and a social worker. I'm sorry you are going through this you don't and your children definitely DO NOT deserve to be around this.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ok so my son just got his first job. He’s also type 1 diabetic. Well last night while working his sensor starts going off his blood sugar dropped to 52. They told him he could deal with it after he got his orders done, which in a way I understand that but at the same time if it drops low enough he can pass out and that won’t be good for anyone!! They wouldn’t even let him just grab some glucose tabs out of his bag. I’m so torn here because I don’t know what’s appropriate and what’s not.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
So my bf went to work last night for 8:30pm (he has no set schedule) he texted me when he got there and now it's 7:40am and I haven't heard from him....his FB said he made it back to the warehouse 4hrs ago.....it only takes 2hrs max for him to get home...should I call his job?? I'm getting nervous (he doesn't have a phone , it only works on wifi)
thank you ladies yes it's hard but im moving on and ignored all calls and text.