I have a few questions for yall im 18 i have a 4 month old lil boy ok so me an my fiance have been arguing or snapping on each other or fighting everyday for awhile now an i love him soooo much i dont ever wanna see him with any other girl but it's unhealthy for my son an if we leave each other i dont have anywhere to go I need a job but noones been hiring me an this is some stuff that happens for instance we yell hes called me a bitch a whore and told me to kill myself 3x before and told me i don't deserve to be a mom an i mean ive called him stuff back but then he gets soo mad when brantley is constantly crying or when he throws up he yells an throws the medicine syringe hes thrown or tossed his high chair an i get blaimed for everything an like many times hell say he could do better an etc but i know if we break up ill be basically homeless my mom lives in a hotel i have no money an I mean im on the lease but i just dont have the money to pay the rent theres times hell love spending time with our son but then theres time hes always on his ps4 i barely get to spend time with him ??? Sorry for this long long post i just dont know what to do
You have your child to worry bout hun. He's throwing things, he's being disrespectful, its time to let go.It'll hurt and its no where near easy breaking up your family but this is dangerous. Sooner or later it'll be your son getting hurt as well as you. There are programs that can either help you pay your rent or provide a nice shelter ,both while you get yourself together. Its your decision at the end of the day and I hope everything turns out OK and that you and your child remain safe. @_brantleysmommy
I have no where an we both get violent i just dont throw stuff i try an grab him so i can talk to him but i left a bruise once an he said he was gonna call the cops on me
First you need to call the cops and when he gets really violent and you can apply to Walmart or places like that they hire instantly, that is not healthy for you and your baby. You need to get away from him. Ask any friend or family for help or even his family, it's for the sake of the baby. Meanwhile you find a job you can baby sit, Craigslist always has jobs. I pray for the safety of you and your baby
NP @_brantleysmommy