Sending out an SOS in the bedroom dept!!! We are 6 weeks postpartum and I'm not all that interested... Before he had to tell me to slow down or give him a break and now it's nonexistent. I tore really bad during delivery and am still tender. I need a kick start on my libido! idk what to do and it's upsetting him. :/
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Hmm that's tough, just try to ease back into it slowly. Do some foreplay maybe it'll get you in the mood! Try things you guys used to do@norcalmomma
@vb95, yea that's what I was doing but I think he's over that and wanting the real thing now. Idk
Yeah mine too, this is tmi but I just do things to pleasure him if I don't want to have sex, so at least he's satisfied @norcalmomma
@vb95, There's no drive right now... Idk what to do about it or how to get him to not take so much offense... I was game for sex any time or the day or night up to a month before I delivered but it's dead now...
I'm the exact opposite, I was so horny right after I had my son, and now I have no sex drive at all😞
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Honestly, just start to have sex reqularly. Even if you don't feel like it. I had the same problem of where I wasn't ever in the mood, but once we got started, I would enjoy it. So try that maybe