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Chelsea Marie
Chelsea Marie
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)

my husband has lied yet again, but claims he has no idea about the situation. i have tried and tried again to trust him…

my husband has lied yet again, but claims he has no idea about the situation. i have tried and tried again to trust him but mistakes keep being made. we have baby number 2 on the way and a 7 month old son. my heart hurts and i feel worthless. i cant seem to forgive him but i still want to stay with him. any advice mommas? i know a lot of you will tell me to leave him, but when i have two babies i feel like it isnt about me, they need a family. i grew up in a broken family and it just hurts. i dont want that for my kids.

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fubbily

Chelsea MarieМама сына-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)

:)

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fubbily

Chelsea MarieМама сына-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)

thank guys, i feel like maybe a weekend away to go think might do me some good. go stay with so.e family

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itsdestyn

DestynВ ожидании первенца

Adding on...don't just stay with someone for the kids. Especially as they get older and can comprehend what's going on. Kids learn through actions. So do what's best for you🙂

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mommy4916

JenniferМама четверых детей

Some times it isn't about the kids, you need to remember your worth and if he dose it time and time again and you forgive him he's just gna say hey she will take me back so who cares.. Set limits with him and have a conversation and tell him if it happens again you will leave and stick to it so he knows he's losing his wife and kids, best of luck to you

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fubbily

Chelsea MarieМама сына-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)

i always forgive him, its just the moving on part and the fact he will not come straight out with the truth. he's denying it all even though his story doesnt add up. it hurts my heart and has ruined a good part of our relationship

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kaidensmama27

AnaisВ ожидании первенца

Do you feel you can forgive him for what he did

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