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Kayla M.
Kayla M.
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)

o.k so I'm not saying it as a bad way but we really don't have anything yet for the baby just a couple of outfits no…

o.k so I'm not saying it as a bad way but we really don't have anything yet for the baby just a couple of outfits no basic stuff like a diaper bag, pacifiers bottles Pampers wipes car seat stroller etc. and I know most definitely we will get all that before she was born. I posted it as my status like making a joke out of it because I know we can afford getting things its just right now we're paying off our car and saving for a place before she arrives. so 2 of my friends (more like acquaintances) comment on it telling me they'll give me their hand me downs from they're babies they just had and DONT get me wrong I don't mind it and this other girl posted on my wall telling me that she has all her daughters stuff still that she doesn't mind giving it to me as well. again I don't mind half of my 2 yr olds clothes were all hand me downs from my cousins daughter. its I feel kind of weird like I shouldn't accept it because I know we can afford it but they offered so why not. I just feel like they think I can't afford anything and that I'm seeking attention which I'm not. I was making a slight joke because this time around with my first I had everything diaper bag was packed for the hospital and with this baby I don't even have one yet. should I feel guilty. I guess I feel worse and ashamed like I can't do it just because she didn't msg me personally but posted on my wall for everyone to see? how would y'all feel?

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missing82user

missing82user

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You know you can afford it, so don't feel bad or upset. If someone assumes you can't that's because they didn't see the joke. That's all lol. Yeah you could have been messaged, but they probably didn't think you'd mind them posting on your wall honestly. I wouldn't feel any kind of way personally. I'd say thank you and slightly explain WHY I said what I said, but other than that it's no ones business unless I want it to be.

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3plus2is5

Kayla M.

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)

yeah. idk I guess I took it wrong to. they're just trying to help.

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heidi3581

Heidi

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I'd say accept the help and keep what you need and give some of it away whatever's extra or not as necessary

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rgaine

rgaine

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I'd say exactly what you told us- that you can afford it and maybe that you wouldn't to take it all when someone else could possibly need it more than you. Then let them decide.

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rgaine

rgaine

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*wouldn't want

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3plus2is5

Kayla M.

Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (30 нед.)

thanks ladies.

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