So, my boyfriend fell asleep. And his phone happened to go off and lite up. Of course, I'm a curious girlfriend so I…
So, my boyfriend fell asleep. And his phone happened to go off and lite up. Of course, I'm a curious girlfriend so I look and it's another woman messaging him, saying something about hoping someone "matures" up. So I'm like okay, that's interesting. So I pick it up and click on it and apparently he's been messaging her saying he is miserable with me. But, let alone I try to communicate with him and tell him if he EVER feels a type of way to come to me and we can talk about it. My feelings are SO hurt right now. The fact that he can go to someone else and express apparently how he feels and never mentions a word to me about it. (And no it wasn't anything in the sorts of cheating) I just don't understand what I'm doing wrong.... I try so hard to be the best girlfriend while dealing with being pregnant and school and work.
katelynn·
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Awe I'm so sorry sweetie :(
Angela·
a lot of guys including my boyfriend are so selfish; (
Zuleika·
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I'm sorry but that's not okay on his part. If you want to communicate and he doesn't, but wants to communicate with another woman that's childish and he needs some growing up to do not you. I'm sorry your going through this right now mama. @ericasasser
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
Hun you're gorgeous & it will be his lost !
Simone·
Мама подростка
Awe. Im sorry mama. i cant imagine, id be so hurt. have you said anything to him about reading those texts? he clearly feels close enough with this girl to tell her about his gf issues. im sorry. if you need to chat feel free to message me girl.
Gabby·
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I'm sorry :( definitely confront him! that's messed up to talk to someone else about what's going on in your relationship. He needs to talk to YOU about it or not at all. message me if you need any support!!!
Elizabeth·
Мама дочки (4 года)
Wow what a jerk , I would confront him on it and ask why he didn't come to you and went to her when you told him he can come to you anytime if there is a problem im so sorry
Erica·
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Thanks y'all! I'm going to try and talk to him about it after work today. I just really don't feel like getting into an argument over it. I really don't need this extra added on stress right night. But, I guess it is what it is. And the "woman" is an older lady who has a "thing" for him. So yeah that's made it worst. He hasn't ever talked to her before since we've been together. But I guess it's what I get when I date someone 7 years older then me. @_stephanie.g @countrymama166 @gab044 @katelynn @preciouslove @princess23x @simone.nicole87
Gabby·
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sometimes the hard conversations hurt but he shouldn't be mad at YOU. he doesn't get to be! you deserve respect