So I just woke up from my nap to this very rude message from my baby fathers sister this is the second time one of his…

my BF'S mom and one of his sisters is being like that. I flat out told them they won't be around the baby, but that's just me

shit!!! girl no one can tell you nothi g thats yoyr baby your are the one who is carrying him smh i hate when family mind in business that is not their problem. omq

Yeah she needs to grow up go refocus her energy on some other shit, you never know she can have some kind of jealousy type thing that's behind all of this. Either way that's her problem not yours 😌

That's exactly the point I be making to my baby father all the time like none of his sisters ask how im doing how my baby's doing or anything if I didn't occasionally post pictures on Facebook they wouldn't even know my child is still alive that's why I don't understand why she's pressed for so many answers I already told my baby father my child is not going to none of his sisters houses after my baby is born Untill my baby has all his/her shots , if nobody makes it there business to come see my baby then they don't need to see my child @aamir2816

Lmao moved a funny foot up her ass , you are too much she definitely said that trying to get under my skin or make me get all hyped up have a argument with her but I won't give her the satisfaction she can kick rocks @bria

@aamir2816, I friggen hate people lol

Once I would've read you need to tell him if it's his and you moving funny I woulda moved my funny foot up her ass lmao that is a statement made to provoke you. Don't give in though because you're pregnant and there's a lil baby that needs your energy ya know

And then it's like she was tryna uphold you to some kind of standard like bitch excuse you 😭 and you damn right they don't owe you nothing so it wouldn't be a big deal to start shitting on you if you guys did get close. And good idea I would do the same thing too like girl this is MY baby he came out of my vagina your brother might be the father but I'm calling shots too lmao she could not exist in your baby life at all @bria that's where people get it fucked up, I love making people feel dumb when they do that shit

@aamir2816, exactly people have no lives so they feel it's okay to involve themselves in others! @egates yeah honestly she's got no right to be coming at you like that and omg I feel you I still have slight slip ups Lol the pregnancy hormones do not help at all

Definitely I don't look at any of his sisters like they're my sisters because they're loyalty is to him not me & they could switch up any minute but im not going to entertain her im just going to let him handle that because she's really lost her mind & im petty so I will definitely exclude her from my baby's life if she continues to step out of her lane @aamir2816

The only reason I wasn't there for him was because I felt he needed to be around his family & grieve I would be able to feel sad for him loosing someone but I couldn't sit there & share memories with him & cry with him like his family could but whenever he needed to talk to me he would call or text & we would speak he knew why I wasn't physically there for him & it didn't bother him if he wanted to see me he knew I would come see him but I'm just going to tell her anything she feel she needs answers to she needs to speak to her brother & im going to block her me @sheaxx

Lmaoo I can definitely see your trying to work on it 😂 so am I because me 5 month ago would of cursed her out & kept going back & forth with her power to change 😂😂 @bria

Well that explains it perfectly he doesn't tell them shit so she's tryna get it out of you and she's really doing it the wrong way. She look like the type to act like a friend but turn on you in a second. And definitely don't even give her the time of day it gets under bitches skin. It really was uncalled for, you don't need the drama not now or ever. She better learn how to play Aunty or be excluded period.

Thank you for showing me I'm about to block her right now & we don't do the tagging thing on Facebook because it's not needed if we feel the need to comment under each others pictures or something we will do so all the tagging & stuff is extra I don't need to validate my relationship on social media @cubanese

The old me would of definitely cursed her out but I'm trying to be a better person for my child @j.d-rose

Thank you , that's exactly how I feel. I feel like she's putting herself in a place where she doesn't belong & I think I'm definitely going to just leave her on seen because I don't want to raise my blood pressure going back & forth with her & she doesn't need to be in my relationship because he doesn't tell his sisters none of our personal business but he shouldn't have to I just feel like the way she came at me was uncalled for @aamir2816

You only owe an explanation to him.. No one else. If he feels some way about you not being there when he needed you then he should say something. It's not her place. I would simply respond "k" it pisses ppl off & at the same time it's not being rude lol

@bria, yeah I hate that .She probably miserable too and just want somebody to take her on. Lol don't nobody owe her shit bitch probably bored 😭

That's how I feel they definitely have no place in our relationship & this is not the first time something like this has happened so im really over it , my family would never approach him in that way let alone at all trying to be involved in our business but your definitely right that's a great way to handle it @bria

@egates if you can't tell I'm tryna work on my anger problem lmfaooooo😂😂😂😂

@aamir2816, 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻preach that's fucking FACTSSSSSSSSS

The way she's going about it is very manipulative, she sound like a control freak. I would ignore her too because of that was me it would of gotten ugly and high blood pressure is unwanted. She's being rude and she's prying for information something her brother probably isn't telling her. Don't fall for it. She ain't feeding fucking or financing you. She need to stay in her lane. People hate it when you one word them or don't give them back the response they want. If you can't help but say something just reply none of your concern.

I didn't even know that you can do that now , thank you for letting me know. But it's honestly not , we speak regularly & there's no issues between us that's why im not understanding where she's coming from @cubanese

I think that's a good idea thank you @arijane316

I just feel if she has any questions she could of came at me in a different way , I feel like her approach was rude & if she really had any questions she should feel comfortable asking her brother first instead of me , but the lil jab about my child being his or not was crossing the line @mariah0809

Peoples siblings and parents and friends do not belong getting involved in the relationship!! Period! There's nothing I can't stand more than that, if she is so concerned she can voice that to her brother, hitting you up to say that is her going out of her way to cause a problem in my opinion. I agree with not letting it stress you out, you can simply reply with you appreciate her concern but you will handle your relationship with your baby's father as you see fit. @mrsthig is right you don't owe her shit

Lol I want to be rude back but I just don't want it to escalate & turn into something bigger @bria

That's the thing she's just assuming that something is going on when it isn't , me & my baby father are fine I speak to him everyday & theres no real problems & he hasn't spoke to her to make her feel the way she's feeling but I just don't like the fact she tried to make it seem like I don't know who my child's father is @amaperalta03

straight up say "it's none of your business"

The only part I feel that was rude was that part about leading him the wrong way questioning weather it's his or not. Everything else was I guess questions they all wanted to. Kno. Just an outsider looking in. But everything annoys us pregnant woman I get it.

I'd be real rude myself lmao

That's what I was thinking about doing because I'm not trying to be going back & forth with her or explaining myself , the only person I owe a explanation to for anything is my child's father but thank you @mrsthig

Uhhhhh idk. I mean that's his sister and she gonna defend him if she feel something going on but in the same breath she shouldn't be adding her 2 cents and assuming shit either