Okay.. Sorry for this long rant but I feel like I need to just vent before I go crazy. Lol.
I'm starting to get very insecure and kinda irritated. This is just one incident that happened today. So me and my boyfriend were out in town driving around and He was talking about one of his friends who used to be very big who got smaller and he said that his friend was thick but he was still "fat" ( I have been "bigger" my whole life. I have had a big butt and my legs used to be all muscle. But I lost that all when I got pregnant) Any way, he realized that he was basically calling me fat at the same time. He didn't say anything like oh you took that the wrong way. He leaned over and kissed me on the check, and then said the only one that can be fat is you. At this point I'm starting to get upset. We stopped at a restaurant to eat, the whole time we are there he is checking out girls behind me. ( I know this because I caught him various times) I don't like feeling like this at all. Like honestly I feel like I'm not pretty enough and I'm just not good enough. Ugh. This shit sucks :(
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Maybe couples therapy . Sounds weird but I know people who it saved their relationship if he loves you hell go
Yeah I know :(. I just really don't know how to get him to listen and like understand... @mrsmord
Well I don't wanna sound mean bc he is the father of your child but he sounds like a tool and really needs to make you feel better and listen to you.
This isn't the first time this has happened.... I have tried to talk to him.. He always just says oh stop crying or your getting upset of something so stupid.. It turns into an argument.. I just don't know what to do:/ @mrsmord
That's really not okay . I hope you had a talk with him about how you feel and. I hope he can change because I would be very insecure and very very hurt and a man should not do that to his girl or his child's mother .. Disrespectful to say the least . His eyes should always be on you and he should never make a comment about your weight and appreciate and love you the way you are .
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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