I need too vent! but anyways!
I know it's my husbands family but I wish for once he would put my son and I first. I'm currently in college (trying) too get my degree in social work. Today I have a midterm exam and I told my husband that and asked him if he could stay with Niko for 1-2 hours so I could take this exam and he tells me that no he couldn't do that because his brothers with his dad are going to go out working in their own little landscaping company and its a lot work this weekend and they can't spare anybody from the work. so basically he's choosing too go with them instead of helping me out. I told him that I understood that but why couldn't he just miss 2 hours early in the am and then meet them up later and he told me that that wasn't possible and he had a responsibility too help his dad out... I yelled at him telling him that all I need was for him too take care of Niko so that i could go pass this thing so I could give us a better future because I'm sick and tired of living with his parents and I want too move out. and he says, "I'm going too go and that's it." and I reply with " That's fine, the reason why we live in this shit hole is for me too be able too get an education and move out, but if you can't give me the opportunity but with the way you're acting it's like you want too live her forever and that's fine because it'll be you still living with your parents all by yourself because I refuse too stay here any longer.
I don't know if I'm overacting but I'm so upset. I'm going too take such a bad grade for this and I have nobody else too take care of my son. :( all I want is too have a some support. but not even my husband is giving that too me.
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@angiek, you have such a beautiful soul. thank you so much for your words of encouragement. People like you deserve the best. The best wishes for you and your family. 💘
@nikolaismommy, you are very welcome...you are so hard working and diligent, with that attitude you are certainly going to reach every goal!
It absolutely will. You sound like you are an amazing mama! Praying for your success!! @nikolaismommy
@madibug96, @davitap31 @angiek thank you guys so much for your kind words and for understanding. I'm very close with my mom and she helps me out so much by taking care of him on Wednesday nights when I have classes and throughout the week whenever I need time to study but today she was working so she couldn't help and I normally don't ask too much from my husband when it comes too my schooling since I always go too my mom or I do my work late at night after putting my son to sleep. but it was too much for me too ask apparently. but oh well. I'll keep studying for my degree. it's not only for me it's for my son too. It'll make for a good motivation story later right? lol.
@nikolaismommy, you have every right to be super upset! I would be furious! It's time to put his family first! And his family is you and that baby! Kudos to you for trying to get your degree! I hope he wises up and realizes he's being a jerk.
I don't think you're overreacting. I wouldn't quit. I think you're husband needs to figure out that when you guys got married and had a baby, y'all should come first. Hang in there @nikolaismommy
Definitely would recommend getting your degree. I have no clue how close your family is or if you even speak to your family but if you do then I would threaten with moving back with them. my friends husband is never home because he works, comes home to change, and leaves with friends and never sees his damn daughter and she just left one night (came back cause her car did funky stuff, but still). if my husband pulled this shit and chose anyone over our son I'd leave. I have no money of my own but my mom is always willing to help me because she knows my husband can be an asshole.
@shaymama, but they don't and that's the saddest part of it all. I might as well just quit now and get a job instead so I can move my baby and I forward that way because the college path isn't working for me if he doesn't want too help.
That sucks! I don't think you're overreacting, baby should trump All and not only should your husband know this but his family should understand as well
@nikolaismommy, awe thanks, sweetie! ☺️ I appreciate that!