When I go into labor, I only want my parents to know I'm going to the hospital. And if it happens while my bfs at work,…
When I go into labor, I only want my parents to know I'm going to the hospital. And if it happens while my bfs at work, then clearly I'll call him and my mom will take me. But if it happens at night, im only calling parents to tell them. I don't want his mom to come unless we know for sure I'm having the baby. I know there's times where you go and they send you home. But if I go and they keep me, that's when his mom can come up, but she's not allowed in the room. Only my BF and my mom. I don't want stress or to be upset. And I'll make sure the nurses know. And if his family gets offended and mad, then that's on them. I'm done trying to please them cause nothing I do is appreciated or noticed. My family has supported my BF and I from day 1, so I want them to be with me while I go through this. I honestly don't know where I would be without my family. They don't have much, but they make sure I'm being taken care of and if I need something, they find a way to do it. And I know they'll do the same for my son.
Kylie Winsor·
I agree with your choice! I totally support it to. I will feel the same when ever I get there.
Samantha·
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@winsy13, like I get its his family, but I'm the one going through all the pain and everything. So I should have a choice of who is with me or not. And that means people who are supportive of me and are there for me. Not the people that make me cry and stressed out constantly
Kylie Winsor·
Ha and it's way personal I'd just wait until you've had the baby. You won't get anytime with your baby alone after everyone knows. :)
missing273user·
You're the one giving birth girl! My bf got annoyed at me when I said no to his mom being in there. She asked him, lord knows why... I should have been the one she asked. She's a sweetheart and I love her but we aren't close for her to be in the room.
Samantha·
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@mommytobesari, lol my BF mom asked me who was gonna be in the room. I said without hesitation my mom and my BF.
Dominique·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
Girl don't let your BFs family stress you out not to mention I'm pretty sure your only allowed two guest in the delivery room a ways at the time of birth I mean throughout labor I think you can three or four but when it's actually time to push its only two so ur BFs mom is sol anyways
Samantha·
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Lol @mommieof2and1 even during my labor I don't want them in there. Cause I'll prob be in tears from stress. So I only want my mom and my BF for the ENTIRE thing
Haley Atkins·
Мама дочки-младенца
Honestly I wouldn't even tell his family they are doing way too much
Samantha·
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@airannamommy, well that's the thing. I don't even want to tell them until I know I'm absolutely having the baby. But his mom loves with us so we have to let her know when I'm going to hospital. But I don't want her going with us. I want her to come up when his family comes.
Dominique·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
Just be straight forward let them know now the only people your having at the hospital are your mom and bf that when u get comfortable and some time with you and the baby then you'll have visitors my daughter was born around 7:11am I didn't have any visitors till after 1pm I wanted time alone and I also wanted to rest and shower I also didn't allow anyone to post pictures of her until after my fiancé and I did first on any social media pages
Samantha·
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@mommieof2and1, yea. I don't want all these people coming in right after I have my son. And I totally agree with no pictures until we put ours up first. We did that with the announcement and the gender.
Dominique·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
Yeah just voice your opinion don't let anyone try to tell u how to be