Soooo pissed off & upset rn 😤😭😫
my boyfriend asked me if I would be mad if he went to a party & I was like "well yeah, but then I'm the bad guy if I say yes." and he was all "no no you're not" then proceeded to tell his friend to pick him up and when I wouldn't give him a hug or kiss goodbye he was all upset and I was all "Don't you think I wanna have a drink and do something and have fun with our friends too?! do you think this is fair to me?!" and....this my favorite part..he goes "it's only one night..." I lost my shit. "Yeah, I wish I got a night off! BUT I DON'T FROM PREGNANCY, INSTEAD I GET ACHES AND PAINS AND NAUSEA. I DON'T GET ONE NIGHT." Then he left. IDC if anyone thinks that's petty, it upsets me. and it didn't help that he chose a day I was extra hormomal either. He knows I miss hanging out with our friends and he left me home alone. ugh so upset and angry
@kala_elise, I really can't complain this is the first time he's gone out throughout my whole pregnancy...or even tried lol. I know he feels sorry so I'm betting it's the last too 😂
well @bre_bresee. we all have to have a place to vent or we would just loss our minds lol 😁
I don't put up with this type of behavior at all... I didn't when I was with my ex husband, and now, married to a woman, still don't! She doesn't even try though! she's gone through pregnancy twice, so, she knows what it's like... Maybe that's why, idk... She's had drinks on 2 occasions during this pregnancy and both times was at home, and didn't have more than 2 drinks. You gotta set boundaries of what you expect and what you won't tolerate, or you're always gonna get walked all over!
lmao my boyfriend knows I vent a lot on here and sometimes he'll be like "don't talk about me on there please" I'm just like..don't piss me off and I won't have to 😂😂😂 @rcleveland
lmfao @khyrie_mommy right you'd think after what I'd said he'd have changed his damn mind.. last second I popped my head out the door & was like "Don't bother comin back if ur gonna be wasted" I'm not tryna deal with his drunk ass. he gets wgw. smh men don't think enough
@bre_bresee, yea my husband got so upset the other night just because i said i was ganna get on this app, where i can actually get good advice from other pregnant woman and talk about stuff im going thru.
they definitely would lol then they would see how tough and frustrating it is..especially towards the end. I can't even bend down or get up without assistance 😑 guys are babies, they wouldnt last lmao @beaniebaby810
When I was pregnant back in September I went through the same damn thing ... He asked can he go to a party I said "if you really want to" JUST TO SEE where his head was at .... His ass went ! Got home at 3:30 am and slept by himself 😂
exactly! as if hormones weren't enough, being sober and limited amount of caffeine is just icing on the cake! they will never understand. that's why I love preggie lol @rcleveland
@bre_bresee, if they had to be they would give up after a day. between him and his alcohol and cigarettes
yea especially when we have people around us doing.the exact things that we kinda miss doing, going out or have a drink..most of the time im lucky to even stay awake untill 10 at night. 😒😒😒 but yet my husband doesn't understand y im so emotional about stuff
seriously like is it so bad to be sober around someone who literally HAS to be 😑😑 OH NO...we don't mind at alll.... smh they couldn't handle being pregnant @beaniebaby810
right?! like I swear they think just because we can't do something we must not miss it. yeah righttt 😒😒😒 @rcleveland
I definitely get what you mean. I got upset last night because my boyfriend wanted to drink the 3rd night in a row. and he lost his ID and couldn't get anyone to buy it for him and was pissed, I asked if it would kill him to just spend a night with me as him self and not drunk off his ass so I have to take care of him. and apparently he asked me if I cared. and I told him I didn't... men.
im the same way, makes me soooo mad my husband drinks daily and Always says it wont be to long before i can drink again and im like yes it will like almost two years before i can even drink again and thats if i ever do.....men will never understand
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.

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okay so am I over thinking things my fiance found out last night that his daughters mom might get married which is kinda a joke but he then wouldn't talk to me. he didn't talk all night and or he had an attitude. and I couldn't do anything about it so makes me think that he was mad about that and it was upsetting me he wouldn't talk to me and he was treating me like crap. didn't even say goodbye this morning. like I don't know if I'm over reacting or what. why would he be upset about that when w...
I don't care what ppl think of me, but I'm seriously considering putting my baby up for adoption. I love her with all of heart, but doing this alone is hard. Every single night she just screams to the top of her lungs and I do everything to soothe her. I don't know what to do at all. I wish I had some kind of help. I don't have a single ounce of help. I don't know a single soul in Minnesota either.
thats how most men do