babynorwick
babynorwick
babynorwick·В ожидании первенца

okay so am I over thinking things my fiance found out last night that his daughters mom might get married which is kinda a joke but he then wouldn't talk to me. he didn't talk all night and or he had an attitude. and I couldn't do anything about it so makes me think that he was mad about that and it was upsetting me he wouldn't talk to me and he was treating me like crap. didn't even say goodbye this morning. like I don't know if I'm over reacting or what. why would he be upset about that when we get married next month...

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february2016
Jessica💕·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

ya lol I gotta do that sometimes to get my point across when he dont wanna listen which isnt much he usually listens to what i gotta say lol but we make up and it's the best

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babynorwick
babynorwick·В ожидании первенца

I don't yell. him and I don't fight honestly. I mean we have disagreements but it's never bad it's never a fight. but we will be talking and figuring things out. @february2016 and being pregnant I'm so emotional.

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february2016
Jessica💕·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

let him know how you feel

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february2016
Jessica💕·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

id ask him and if he ignored me id be yelling then maybe you'll get a answer outta him

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blessedw7
💋Melissa💋·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

@babynorwick sounds like ur one strong 💪 independent woman and that's what that lil 👸 needs, u go girl!! I do hope everything works out in your favor, prayers your way that it's just not in to worry about.

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babynorwick
babynorwick·В ожидании первенца

right and I mean don't get me wrong he's the most loving man ever. always making sure I feel happy and loved it's just annoying that all sudden he was in a bad mood and then told me what she said and kept his bad mood. so I will figure it out for sure. because my daughter matters too and we both need him here with us even if she isn't here yet. we need her daddy and I'm not dealing with bs @blessedw7

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blessedw7
💋Melissa💋·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

@babynorwick oo I see now... Yea definitely see were u stand w him because to me? Sounds like he's jealous and peed off she's moving on (don't mean to sound like he Don't care for u, been married for almost 18yrs so kinda been there)... U need to find out if he still loves her or wants to be w her and were your engagement stands because someone that isn't w someone?! Shouldn't have reacted the way he did towards u.

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babynorwick
babynorwick·В ожидании первенца

this is everyone's first marriage they were never married just together. so I don't know. but I want to figure it out before we go get our marriage license in a couple weeks. or I could be over reacting and it's completely something different. I have no idea. @aj1115 @blessedw7

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blessedw7
💋Melissa💋·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

What I don't understand is why does he even care that she's remarrying if he isn't w her? Sounds like he still wants to be w her in a way

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aj1115
Athena 💖·В ожидании первенца

Yeah i know how you feel it just isn't a comfortable environment for you and it makes you feel down. Yeah talk to him let him know how you feel

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babynorwick
babynorwick·В ожидании первенца

@aj1115, it's kinda always like that when he's upset. it doesn't happen a lot but he knows that I'm not going anywhere so he thinks it's okay. I'm definitely going to have a talk with him when he gets home because I wanna know what's up. I'm already not wanted in this house by his mom so if he isn't going to talk to me too I mines as go for the night. or something. I just don't know.

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maxs_mommy80
Kay80·Мама двоих (младенец)

@babynorwick, sorry I red too fast. I thought she was pregnant. Hope he is different when he come home.

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aj1115
Athena 💖·В ожидании первенца

Yeah it's not right for him to treat you bad because he is upset.

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babynorwick
babynorwick·В ожидании первенца

she's not pregnant. that could he the step dad thing I just don't know. I just don't want him to treat me like crap over her because I didn't do anything. and it's not fair if him and I are getting married she has the same right. it's just upsetting me that he isn't talking to me for some reason and I don't know. @maxs_mommy80 @aj1115

I just hope when he comes home from work he's different.

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maxs_mommy80
Kay80·Мама двоих (младенец)

Maybe he is thinking the man that pregnant her will stay for good which means the guy will be in his daughter's life. My friends husband didnt like it when his ex got pregnant(they also had a child together) cuz he knew his ex's boyfriend was gonna be for good now that they got pregnant. Dont know if that makes any sence. But it natural for u to be upset, heck I would be upset to cuz u automatically will think why is he like that...does he still love her etc. But it doesnt mean that he does. Talk to him and let him know how he made u feel ingoring and not talking to u.

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aj1115
Athena 💖·В ожидании первенца

Reason *

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aj1115
Athena 💖·В ожидании первенца

Maybe he isn't fond of the idea that his daughter will have a " step dad " but it is strange for him to be mad if it's not for that reads

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