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Is it "wrong" of me to want my fiances mother in the delivery room and not my sister? I can have 3 people and I want…

Is it "wrong" of me to want my fiances mother in the delivery room and not my sister? I can have 3 people and I want Justin (the baby's dad), my mom, and his mom. His mom and I are very close. But my sister is flipping out because she can't be in the room. I just feel like the grandparents should be in the room. Plus this is my mom's 4th grandchild, and this is his mom's very first grandchild, and Justin is her only child so it's up to Justin and I to give her more grandbabies or not.(p.s. this is my first baby, my sister had 3 that's how my mom is a grandmother to 3 already, mine being her 4th)

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missing268user

missing268user

no girl that's not wrong the baby is their grandbaby. They both deserve to be there especially when you want them there, tell your sister calm down and think about you and the baby

missing126user

missing126user

Мама сына (4 года), беременна (39 нед.)

the choice is yours and if that's what you want then go with it☺

becca11jane

Becca

ok thank you. I mean she is going nuts about it. my baby shower is in 2 weeks, and she was planning and doing everything for it and now she is taking everything back and won't be there all because she wont see my baby first. she is putting so much stress on me it's ridiculous.

suez

Suzie

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Let her act childish that shows you that you're making the right choice..

becca11jane

Becca

That's what I think too, and she is the type of person where it always has to be about her.

suez

Suzie

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I'm not letting my mother in law even if I have an extra spot . It's nothing personal it's either my sister and BF and my mom but if my moms not there then it'll just be an empty spot

becca11jane

Becca

I have read that a lot of people don't want the mother in law in the room, I just have a very close relationship with her, and she is so excited for the baby to be here. Nothing against my mom, but mother in law asks me pretty much every day if I need anything, how the baby is doing, how I'm feeling, and everything. She wants to be so involved.

becca11jane

Becca

I think my mom isn't very excited because she has been through it 3 other times with my sister and her kids. This is my mother in laws first so she is crazy about the baby already.

adrianamead

Adriana mead

my mother in law wants to be in my labor and I want her to be in. I'm excited. it's hard about the sister though. either your mom or your sister need to understand but your mother in law is just as close to your baby as your mom is. don't count her out.

becca11jane

Becca

That's true. I'm sure my mom is excited. my emotions are just crazy.

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