Moms of the US, unite!
mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

Preggies,

We've seen quite a few posts from moms who look like they are suffering from either prenatal and postpartum depression. This is nothing to be ashamed about and we must support women going through this. Below are numbers and a link to find counseling. Also. we are always here if you need someone to talk to.

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According to The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), between 14-23% of women will struggle with some symptoms of depression during and after pregnancy. Women with depression usually experience some of the following symptoms for 2 weeks or more:

Persistent sadness

Difficulty concentrating

Sleeping too little or too much

Loss of interest in activities that you usually enjoy

Recurring thoughts of death, suicide, or hopelessness

Anxiety

Feelings of guilt or worthlessness

Change in eating habits

Postpartum depression symptoms:

Postpartum depression may be mistaken for baby blues (which affect up to 80% of women) at first — but the signs and symptoms are more intense and last longer, eventually interfering with your ability to care for your baby and handle other daily tasks. Symptoms usually develop within the first few weeks after giving birth, but may begin later — up to six months after birth.

Postpartum depression symptoms may include:

Depressed mood or severe mood swings

Excessive crying

Difficulty bonding with your baby

Withdrawing from family and friends

Loss of appetite or eating much more than usual

Inability to sleep (insomnia) or sleeping too much

Overwhelming fatigue or loss of energy

Reduced interest and pleasure in activities you used to enjoy

Intense irritability and anger

Fear that you're not a good mother

Feelings of worthlessness, shame, guilt or inadequacy

Diminished ability to think clearly, concentrate or make decisions

Severe anxiety and panic attacks

Thoughts of harming yourself or your baby

Recurrent thoughts of death or suicide

Untreated, postpartum depression may last for many months or longer.

Postpartum psychosis

With postpartum psychosis — a rare condition that typically develops within the first week after delivery — the signs and symptoms are even more severe. Signs and symptoms may include:

Confusion and disorientation

Obsessive thoughts about your baby

Hallucinations and delusions

Sleep disturbances

Paranoia

Attempts to harm yourself or your baby

Postpartum psychosis may lead to life-threatening thoughts or behaviors and requires immediate treatment.

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Please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) or use this link to find a counselor ссылка

We need to support these women and not judge them. If you think someone is going through depression or needs our help, please message us right away.

Best wishes,

Preggie_USA

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@a011083, the link above has counsellors in your area. It would be good to talk to someone.

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a011083
ariel·Мама сына-младенца

@preggie_usa, I'm not suicidual tho but i dont have time to do anything go outside eat anything just take care of the baby

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@a011083, please try the link above or talk to a relative today.

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a011083
ariel·Мама сына-младенца

nope @preggie_usa nd don't have a apointment till march 30

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@a011083, have you talked to your doctor?

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a011083
ariel·Мама сына-младенца

i have postpartum depression bad

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nappysgirl15
Christina Abbott·Мама подростка

@marmber, again ty very much. my sister and grandma r going to be at the hospital and help me out alot

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marmber
Maria·Мама дочки-младенца

@nappysgirl15, well just know we r here for you. I'll say it again before you deliver have a support system in place at the hospital and for when you get home. Feel free to msg me if you just want to chat.

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nappysgirl15
Christina Abbott·Мама подростка

@marmber, ty for the advice. i hope things work out between him and i but i just dont see it idk. i feel you tho i hear bout all these good hubbys and bf and it makes me so jealous i cant stand to read the post when really i just want to be happy for them.

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camcam216
Shay·Мама сына-младенца

thank you for responding @preggie_usa and thank you tons for congratulating me!!

😍😍😘

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@nappysgirl15, yes it can. Stress doesn't help. 😐

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@tristennicole, @ilovebeingyourmommy @marmber ❤️❤️❤️

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@camcam216, sounds like you have a lot of emotions to deal with. You should bring it up at your next doctor's appointment to be on the safe side. Congratulations 🎉👶🏼

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camcam216
Shay·Мама сына-младенца

I just had my son almost 3 weeks ago and I'm a ftm... I tend to cry a lot but I never cry because I'm sad. I haven't had any bad thoughts or suicide thoughts. I tend to cry bc I look at my son an think how cute he is... lol is that normal? I cry happy tears... I tried for so long to have a baby and for years thought I couldn't have kids. I got preg 4 years ago and we were both so excited! but Jesus took my baby only 7 short weeks later. so when I got preg again, of course I was afraid of it happening again... but when it didn't we were SO overjoyed! now that he's here I'm SO sensitive towards him and about him lol... is that considered depression is that considered depression?? @preggie_usa

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tristennicole

thanks for this I have never had depression or anything like it and I totally had postpartum depression for at least a month I'm finally feeling better :) it can happen to anyone even if you don't think it can be you ... good luck Mommy's you can get through it and don't be ashamed of getting help ... here if any Mommy's need it :)

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ilovebeingyourmommy
Bri·Мама дочки-младенца

If anyone needs to talk I'm here :)

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marmber
Maria·Мама дочки-младенца

@preggie_usa, thank you for putting it out there. This app was so great during my pregnancy, im so happy to see you care for your members. I didnt even realize i was also suffer post partum psychosis as well. Thankfully i am being treated for my ppd and ppa.

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marmber
Maria·Мама дочки-младенца

@nappysgirl15, im not a doctor but it MAY put you at risk. Prior to getting preggers i had body image issues which led to depression and anxiety. During my pregnancy i was so happy, my therapist hoped and believed i wouldnt suffer from ppd and pp anxiety. Alas i did, it hit me HARD, so hard i had to take a break from this app bcuz i couldnt deal or read about others happy moments not even my own. Best thing is have a support system in place and if you can try to talk to a therapist. Also we are here for you.

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nappysgirl15
Christina Abbott·Мама подростка

@preggie_usa, Does it put me at a higher risk for ppd if im struggling with emotional problems while pregnant. My bf walked out on me about half way thru my pregnancy so ive had alot of struggles during due to that.

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@telliey, @toyatennie @prettypinkbows @channy92 @mommabear538 @wannaboyplz @adrianamead 💗💗💗💗💗

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adrianamead

prenatal depression is real. trying my best.

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wannaboyplz
Ashley·Мама троих детей

I had postpartum depression after having my daughter. It was not an experience I would wish on anyone! It is very important to get help.

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mommabear4_07
Lyndsie Kathryn·Мама двоих (2 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

thank you @preggie_usa I have been suffering from postpartum depression since my daughter was born, now I'm pregnant 2 years later and still depressed.

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channy92

@preggie_usa, 😔😑 i thought I was the only one and no one noticed my depression because all i ever saw was how everybody else is in soooo much love with their baby in the womb 😢😢

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prettypinkbows
E·Мама сына-младенца

this is great. thank u @preggie_usa

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zach_momma
Toya Tennie·Мама сына-младенца

thank you @telliey and I kinda think I am going through postpartum depression

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telliey
Chantel·Мама дочки (7 лет), беременна (12 нед.)

@toyatennie, thought about you hun. Not trying to imply anything but if you ever did need to talk to someone.....

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gabbator95
gabriella·В ожидании первенца

....FUCKING GREEEEEAAAATTTT add that to my list of things i need to worry about... -_-

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@gabbator95, talk to your doctor about it. If you already have depression, you are much more likely to have prenatal or postpartum depression.

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@little_mami03, what an amazing dad you have!

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@icedtia, ❤️

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gabbator95
gabriella·В ожидании первенца

what if you already have severe depression. how can I how can I know if this is just my regular depression or pregnancy depression please help

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little_mami03
Trianna·Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет)

It is no joke, I know first hand. I have always thought of myself as a very strong woman who has overcome many obstacles, but after my second child I got really sick I slept all day, I couldn't take care of my kids, I was having panic attacks, I couldn't keep anything down, I started to rapidly lose weight to the point where I couldn't walk. Finally my dad said enough and drove to my house took one look at me and was like this needs to stop or your going to die. He put my kids into the car and carried me to the car and took care of my kids and fed me little bits at a time I stayed there until I had enough strength to walk and I was keeping food down it took me months to get back to normal. It's a horrible thing to go through and I'm begging anyone who might be having any problems even if they're minimal to please get help or talk to someone it's a scary thing to go through and it's practically impossible to get out of on your own.

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icedtia
Tia Williams·Мама сына-младенца

It's been a week and I definitely am having baby blues. anxiety is sky high

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sberthoud1
Samantha·Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

I'm going to on Tuesday unless I go into labor before in which I have early labor symptoms now

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@sberthoud1, it affects about 25% of pregnant women. Talk to your doctor. 💗

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sberthoud1
Samantha·Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

I feel this way now and I'm still pregnant :(

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@hockeymama, @reynatres12 @nurseriri ❤️❤️❤️

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nurseriri
Ria·Мама сына-младенца

@preggie_usa, we also have the baby blues which is not as bad as PPD. But it starts that way and if prolonged it can become PPD. I experienced first week after giving birth but luckily I was aware of my emotions which is normal and last 5-10 days. Overwhelmed sadness amongst Some of the different types of feeling.

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reynatres12
Reynalda·Мама сына (3 года)

I've been through some of these I didn't know it was real serious. It's hard because I feel like I'm alone with no one by my side. but this app has really helped me because I can put my feelings and I know that I'm not a lone. It makes me feel better that there are so many mommies here that are by our sides when we need advise or just someone to help us with our problems. Thank you @preggie_usa for this app it has made me feel better than I did before. I still have my problems but at least I don't keep them bottled up.

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hockeymama
Ariana·Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (30 нед.)

Sometimes PPD doesn't show up right away but months later.. Mine hit when my son was 4 months old.. I got treatment for 2 years! Now he's 7 and we have a great mother son relationship :) always seek help. Only you know your body and what's truly going on.. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and with help it WILL get better :)

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@asoxo, @andiryan93 @kcamps ❤️❤️❤️

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@losmartinez, @tracynangel @mrs.n.mr.awesome ❤️❤️

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mrs.n.mr.awesome
Heavenly·Мама троих детей

I went thru post partum depression with my 1st but its didn't last long and as of 4years ago i do have bpd and severe anxiety amongst other problems. its no fun living life like a hermit crab and having no one...this is the first time I've had a form of internet in years i stay alone...prayers for all going thru invisible illness!

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losmartinez16
Angie·Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (32 нед.)

@preggie_usa, I have not yet. I have an appointment with him on Thursday and I'll talk about it.

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tracynangel
Tracy Pimentel 💋·Мама двоих (младенец)

I went through it, so I'm here is anyone needs to talk!

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@littlemonkey, yes prenatal depression is very real.

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littlemonkey
Alexis Hamatake·В ожидании первенца

is it possible to have these symptoms before having your baby. i get most of these now . and im only 25 weeks. could it just be hormones?

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asoxo
Angiee·Мама дочки-младенца

I just had my daughter on the 12th with the healing & the whole life changing over night it hit me hard, it's seeming to subside now since I have my mom helping me, post partum depression is real and sucks!

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I'm sure I suffer from post partum depression but don't know how to bring it up to my doctor. I'm also pregnant again too. My daughter is 7 months old and I'm about 17 weeks pregnant.

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kristenmarie
kristen·Мама сына-младенца

I think I show signs of PPD, I don't care to go out and be with family/friends anymore. I just stay in my room, and nights are the hardest. I just lay in bed bawling my eyes out, and I'm not sure why. I tried talking to my boyfriend but he thinks it's a made up thing, I'm scared to go to a doctor honestly because I feel like I'd be a bad mom if that were the case. It's not easy.

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@mommyrai, this post was not referring to you at all. We had two posts from moms with depression.

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mommyrai
Rai Wilson·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

When I posted that I was talking about posts on Facebook & Twitter. That make it seem like its cool. I am diagnosed with Bipolar Depression & Anxiety. & I was mad at how people will post about having it simply because they're "having a bad day" or "things aren't going their way" it's offensive to people like me. So don't assume before asking what I meant. Because being someone who lives with panic attacks & hyperventilation & who have dealt with suicidal thoughts it is offensive to me & others. @preggie_usa

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akelly16
ashley·Мама двоих (1 год, 11 лет), ждёт третьего

I suffered with a form of postpartum depression after my son was born 2 years ago. now that I look back I can see that it started immediately the day after I had him while I was still in the hospital! the signs were there but I thought I was upset about my body/ pain after birth but it was way deeper than that!! I suffered for a week before I finally said something. if anyone would like any tips or advice in regards to what I experienced or how I felt I would love to help!!! my husband thought I was going insane and I just hid from everyone else. if anyone needs to talk or has any questions I'm a stay at home mom and always have my phone near me!! feel free to message me anytime. I am watching for warning signs in myself as I inch my way closet to delivery this time. it can start before you even deliver!

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tater4414
Eternity·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (16 нед.)

I have been wondering if I'm getting this. It's crazy because my daughter is 4 months old and it hasn't been till now that I have these just awful mood swings and fatigue beyond belief. My motivation to do things is practically 0 and everyone drives me insane. Could it be PPD?

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@harmonee_mommy, could you tell him with a trusted relative or your doctor

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harmonee_mommy
Sandy·Мама троих детей

I haven't said much to my daughters dad at all

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@harmonee_mommy, glad you're able to talk about it now.

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harmonee_mommy
Sandy·Мама троих детей

I'm depressed now haven't really spoken today

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@harmonee_mommy, 😕

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harmonee_mommy
Sandy·Мама троих детей

yes @preggie_usa I also try to talk to my child's father but he doesn't understand

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@harmonee_mommy, @losmartinez have you talked to your doctor?

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losmartinez16
Angie·Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (32 нед.)

Feeling strong prenatal depression. It's not everyday, but the symptoms add up.

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harmonee_mommy
Sandy·Мама троих детей

I was diagnosed with bi polar and manic depression so therefore my doctor told me my depression was gonna b worse than before. Some days I'm able to smile and just because I smile doesn't mean I'm happy I try to disguise my depression. I have had several thoughts of self harm and harm to my baby girl which is y I beg her dad not to leave me home alone with her I don't trust my actions

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alexis_k

I'm bi polar and have been thru post partum it. was horrible

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garayserenity
Teresa Garay·В ожидании первенца

I have bipolar I disorder and have been told I am at a much higher risk than other mommies without previous diagnoses. I never wish anyone this hurt that I have been through, but if you are indeed struggling I urge everyone to seek help. Please! It can save a life 💕

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missalexisnicole
Alex·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)

I love this so much 💕

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missing225user
missing225user·Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (39 нед.)

💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@mothernature, @motherof4_galore ❤️❤️❤️

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mothernature
Alex Liberty·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (31 нед.)

I love this!. suffered PD with my first and my god was it the worst struggle of my life! I never want other mommies to feel like that! 💕 much love @preggie_usa

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missing440user

Thanks so much !!! We greatly appreciate it.:))

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mom.life_usa
Moms of the US, unite!·В ожидании первенца

@brycesmommy, we want everyone to know we are always here to help and these are serious issues.

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missing440user

Love the fact that you guys care enough to address these issues :) love this app!!!

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