you know I don't even know what to post on here anymore... I would talk about how my belly is super tight and when I try to rub it I get a sharp shooting pain, buuuuut I'm afraid some sensitive person having a bad day will get their feelings hurt about it and think I'm ungrateful or think I shouldn't have gotten myself pregnant bcuz they seem to think that I thought it was "beautiful and easy". I could talk about the things my children did today but their not perfect either and it might come off as a complaint and some sensitive, bad day having person might think I don't deserve my children and they could do better...or I could just talk about how beautiful the weather is going to be this weekend and I can't wait...yeah I'll just go with the weather... seems to be a pretty safe subject that's not going to get 15 indirect posts directly pointing out the exact things I put in my own personal post prior to theirs. #ItsCalledLifePeople #YouCantHaveItYourWay #ShitHappens #TheresMillionsOfPeopleInThisWorld #TheirGoingToDoAndSayThingsYouDontLike #RollOn
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Ooh I know what you mean. The drama on here is crazy. I'm starting to block people now (tried hard to avoid it) but some people on here are just trying to aggravate everyone and/or seem to think they're always right. I get it, hormones happen, but damn some of this is just ridiculous.
@mommmyyof2, same here I can feel little finger movements like he's rubbing his face lol and my strong movements are really high in my ribs
@akelly16, oh boo my Dr does when I hit 36 weeks she tells me if the baby is head down or not. my hiccups are really low too an I get movements down there with the little hands alot I feel like one will just pop out! haha
@mommmyyof2, I feel him really low like hiccups and I think hand movements are under my pants line so I think he's dropped but my dr doesn't do much to check for stuff like that unfortunately
Me tooo it sucks an she is already down in position an my hips feel like they might fall off at any time!
@mommmyyof2, same here 32 weeks is alot tougher the second and third time around !! I'm already contracting regularly
@akelly16, I'm struggling too an It's my second I'm so blessed that I could get pregnant an go through the experience again but man I'm 32 weeks an I can barely make it lol
@mommmyyof2, yeah it's crazy! this is my third pregnancy...I def. feel blessed but I'm struggling to make it to the end of this last pregnancy!!
Oh my I'm glad I haven't had to deal with that. pregnancy is a blessing but it's not always beautiful or easy!
@dee937, I love the block button 😊
@jana.bear, lol I'm not I just don't know who said what yesterday so now I don't know who to reach out to that I think could use some help with something I've experienced cuz they might have been "offended" by me "complaining" lol which is a good example of why we should all just support each other and not bicker back and forth and take shit so personal
Share away. There's plenty of people who value experience. Don't let a few negative Nancy's get you down.
and was told I was irrelevant 😂😂😂 @jana.bear
@jana.bear, me too!! the girl last night who fit that description blocked me lol so now I don't even want to comment on people's posts cuz I don't know who agreed with her after she blocked me..I think i was called an "angry bird" by some other girl so now I just don't feel comfortable on this app which sucks cuz this is my third pregnancy and I had my.first when I was 16 so I was a teen mom and have been a parent for almost 12 years now and I would like to share my experiences and stuff to help people but since I haven't experienced loss I was considered ungrateful or not compassionate for those who have
You're more than welcome to complain. Pregnancy is hard. O have a rash on my belly because apprently I've developed allergies to anything remotely good for stretch marks! Nothing beautiful about red itchy scaly angry skin. Those "how could you ever say anything remotely negative about being pregnant you should just be grateful" people really piss me off.
@babyanakin, well that's a weird interesting twist lol... females are so unpredictable on here haha
It's probably a fake account..wtf that's super weird lol @babyanakin
girl I was just trying to be nice to someone they said they where border so I thought ok I'll talk to them. damn girl asked me if I ever had sex with a girl wtf serious... the things they ask..
@godsjoi, no more children for me girl! my body has turned against me this pregnancy lol its been hard! I'll just take my boys and now the pressure is on for me lol...I can't be sensitive and raise boys at the same time, I gotta teach them to be strong and not worry about what other people think...I'll get alot of practice on this app
All boys! Wow. Guess you've gotta try one more time 😉😋and yeah! It's sad and it's certainly no way to live (sensitive and judgmental). How upsetting must life be for those folks. Phew! @akelly16
@godsjoi, yes girl thank you!! this is my third pregnancy..I have an almost two year old boy and an 11 year old boy who's mouth is insane and I don't even know what to do with him... and I'm having another boy! I'm the only female in the house and my husband works every single day no days off hardly ever so to be on an app for women and get judgment for my womanly problems is crazy...I'm over it... I'm just glad I'm not sensitive..life would suck for me if I was as sensitive as some of these people on here
Well I have a sassy four-year-old, an 8 month puppy, cooking another human, a husband who can sometimes be like a third child (lol) and a full time job (as a therapist- lord, give me the strength lol). If I wanna vent about how my kid colored all over the kitchen table or always has a funny slick comment when I say something, I'm gonna. And you all should too. We are allowed to feel how we feel (like you've said). This should be a safe place to vent and get support. So sorry for people being so sensitive and judgey. Sheesh. It just saddens me when I see posts that people are so offended and judgmental and just...MEAN! Ugh. Rant over.
@stephnagy2, yeah I wouldn't be torturing myself on a pregnancy app if I was going through a loss... it would be so agonizing reading about all the things I was missing out on but I def. wouldn't start throwing judgement...that's God's job
@babyanakin, I'm soooo used to it and sooooo over it... people are so whiney about what other ppl do and obviously don't realize they can't bully ppl into feeling certain ways or acting certain ways
I understand why she's upset but she can't be upset with us for feeling the way we feel or becoming frustrated. (I know who you're talking about I saw it too) We are only human and can't be perfect and pregnancy is hard and I don't feel good about myself but I love the hell put of my son. I'm sorry for what happened to her but it's not our fault, we are just as deserving as she.
don't feel like shit! I made a post last night about how my son was spitting out his food and drink and I thought he was entering the terrible twos and some chick posted right after me that she was tired of ppl complaining about their children and their pregnancy because it's a slap in her face because she had a miscarriage... she even put something along the lines of ppl not deserving to have children and I was suuuuper pissed...she then told me I wasn't relevant to her
they made me feel bad because I posted something about how seeing my body change has been hard for me. it has absolutely nothing to do with not wanting to be pregnant and not loving my son. I love this boy more than life itself already but that doesn't mean I don't miss feeling good about myself and feeling sexy.... so I felt like shit for being upset over it.
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his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
@evyeah it makes it super uncomfortable and some of these woman are just hateful and meannnn! I hate blocking people based on one rude post or comment but when I see someone being negative to another person I'm going to start blocking them immediately before they direct that ish at me and I get super pissed like I did last night...that chick had me contracting over here at 32 weeks I was so aggravated haha