biggest fear is that I won't be able to tell contractions from the regular pains. I have even been ignoring my back pains and I asked my doctor and he told me they are contractions and I had no clue.
After 3 children I still don't know the pain of contractions. I thought it was gas each time. But I didn't give birth vaginally, so just look out for those back pains the pain may not increase it may just cause more discomfort
I've never been affected by abdominal pain and even then I just ignore every pain that I have thinking it's normal lol